I met my ex- by chance
By Ayuriny
@Ayuriny (5144)
Denpasar, Indonesia
September 17, 2016 8:39am CST
I was driving home, and decided to stop for a while at the bakery shop to buy some cupcakes and bread. And...I saw my ex was there too! He was already there. I got stuck, didn't know what to say or do. He had been the one whom I loved most, but then we broke up for he had to marry another woman. Since then I didn't want to see him or speak to him yet actually I still couldn't forget him. Well, then I couldn't control myself. I rushed back to my car leaving him there without saying anything.
I don't know why can't I act like normal, why can't I greet him just like friends. Have you ever met your ex? What's your reaction when you meet him/her?
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8 responses
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
17 Sep 16
I would probably turn and walk away to but not because of my love for him but because I simply have nothing to say to him not do I want to. You clearly still have feelings for him. Can I ask why he had to marry another woman? Why could he not marry you?
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
17 Sep 16
that line stuck out to me, too. maybe there's some unanswered questions or unresolved issues between them so no closure yet?
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@Ayuriny (5144)
• Denpasar, Indonesia
17 Sep 16
Until now I don't get the answer yet. He just said that he didn't have another choice. But he said that he still loved me but he had to marry that girl without explaining why. That's all. Now it's been almost 5 months already that we broke up. Yes, I think I still have feelings for him..
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
17 Sep 16
@Ayuriny I wonder why he wouldn't tell you the reason. You deserved to know that much since you were his girlfriend. Nobody has to marry anybody so he obviously had his own reasons for doing so. I am sorry you had to go through that.
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@XinfulThotz (4140)
• Singapore, Singapore
17 Sep 16
My ex-es will normally pretend not to see me and walk a detour.. Maybe they are so scared of seeing me... oh no! It's that crazy b*tch again 
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@XinfulThotz (4140)
• Singapore, Singapore
17 Sep 16
@Ayuriny why are you laughing at me? It's based on true story you know?
why are you laughing at me? It's based on true story you know?1 person likes this
. However, I have friendly relationships with them, and we chat by phone times to times.
@DominicHzd (68)
• Singapore, Singapore
17 Sep 16
perhaps if you have a guy friend or boyfriend you would have behaved differently. Thing is that he is married and thats why I understand why you wouldnt know how to react at that very moment. well, its just being human and i hope you live a great life ahead. That would probably be the best thing to counter-react with what you are facing. cheers!
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@abhinash11 (18)
• Kolkata, India
18 Sep 16
Yeah it is not possible to talk with them.Even we don't want to see our ex .
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