Am I aiming too high?

I would say not. My daughter always felt the same way. She said zhe had never met that person who didn't annoy her after spending so time with him. She was single a long time and she never settled. About six months ago this guy came along and she is head over heels in love. It is so funny to see her like that because I never seen her like that with anybody before. She said to me "So this is what it's suppose to feel like? I had no idea. Never felt this way before about anybody." She loves spending time with him they do everything together and he never annoys her just by being around.

No, you're not. You've got the right attitude.

perhaps you are expecting too much from people as the best of people will have faults and stop think do not you have faults too?

I do get annoyed at the people and sometimes it can go above and I cant take it avoid them.

I am much the same way when people come and stay with me. However, my late husband was one person I could spend 24/7 with and never get bored or annoyed. And he always said he felt the same way about me. So I know that you're not aiming too high. I just wouldn't know how to even find that person. He and I met in a chat room online by chance, and we were 2,000 miles apart. So most times you just never know.

No. Certainly its true that you must be able to spend time with a person before you take as a partner....if you cannot jell with that person its never going to work out It is true that you can never be ascertain unless you try but ig partner should always be known before made

It does depend on who the company is, but in many cases I too get annoyed after a while. Everyone has their annoying quirks (even me I'm sure) . . . there are some I will tolerate because they do other wonderful things to balance it out. I don't know about "perfect", but surely it is possible to be with someone that possesses that tolerable balance .

I think you are reasonable with that. We all need time alone or with other company. Some people are only casual acquaintances while others you can't seem to get enough of. Maybe with couples is they know when the other needs space?

If you don't aim high, you'll end up punching below your weight... And never know what you are capable of! Food for thought.

Never settle. You will know what idiosyncrasies are worth overlooking.

@Drosophila No you are not aiming high , rather you have described yourself the best pragmatic way possible. People tend to pretend themselves under the dimensions of ideal believes like old is gold friend sort of things. But you are being quite straight

Never... good wish

I know exactly what you mean. I'm lucky that my husband always gives me plenty of space. We're often in different rooms doing different things and it doesn't bother us. I think we're happiest when we're together but doing different things. I think compared to many couples we are more independent, though we obviously do enjoy time together too. I can think of many people who I can only cope with in small doses and I have learned not to feel guilty about limiting the time I spend with these people.

Yes Its too high! Relationship consists of two people, both the parties have to adapt for each other, if both of them are looking for long term relationship, one person cannot do everything for sustaining a good relationship.

Yes you are aiming high but then it's your life and its your assumption.

Nd ya i dont think personally its something you r aiming high.. its quiet possible to be with some1 for a long time and still feel the same for them.. just be true to urself..

If u r really into some1 u can never feel annoyed with him.. but some circumstances may occur when u'll feel disturbed or annoyed..