Do you dislike myLotters who don't respond to your comments?

@wittynet (4421)
Philippines
September 25, 2016 2:39pm CST
Please don't. Not all of us have enough time to devote in responding to all comments. I don't think we still have members who are only posting different topics, but not interacting at all. I think it's just in the past. Correct me if I'm wrong for I'm not active here. I can't think of any tags for this post.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
25 Sep 16
Respond or Don't Respond, makes no odds to me. That said, a responder is more likely to get a return visit...
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
25 Sep 16
I agree, @pgntwo! I have had not only a return visit but also friends here few years ago because I was so active. We met and talked as if we have known one another for a very long time. I missed them.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
25 Sep 16
@pgntwo most of them have already left myLot. I hope one day they'll return.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
25 Sep 16
@wittynet That is the way it goes sometimes, one of the beauties of myLot.
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@5thHouse (1678)
• Sheffield, England
25 Sep 16
I don't think it's worth getting annoyed with people who don't respond to comments. Some people are just able to devote more time to the site than others. If someone was following me and never interacting with anything I posted, I would certainly wonder what was the point of following me, but I don't think you can expect people to always be able to be as active as you would like. I think there seems to be a good amount of give and take here. Compared to other sites I've been on there seems to be less of the 'post and run' attitude because people quickly realise that they won't make money if they don't interact.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
25 Sep 16
I agree, @5thHouse regarding the amount of give and take. I think it's also because myLot does not restrict us from commenting with few words only so we can always go back and comment. I left one site because of this reason. I always need to count the number of words I'm typing and see to it that I meet the required number of words. If not, they will alarm you and tell you that your account will be disabled if you'll continue with it. The problem is sometimes I can no longer think of other words to say and another problem is they don't install word counter. It's crazy!
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
26 Sep 16
@5thHouse , myLot understands that we have our own life.
@5thHouse (1678)
• Sheffield, England
25 Sep 16
@wittynet Yes, I hate these minimum number of words requirements. Forcing people to waffle on in more words than they need is just silly. After being on sites where people would often post up to 10 times a day but never read anybody else's work, I'm glad MyLot has come up with a system which doesn't reward that kind of behaviour.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
25 Sep 16
@wittynet No I do not mind that.If I come ac ross a post that interests me,I would respond,even if they usually do not respond to my posts.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
26 Sep 16
Thank you because you like my post, @silvermist! Few years ago, though I didn't like some posts, I was forcing myself to comment. I have 2 reasons: for additional earnings and for the member to feel they are not ignored here.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
27 Sep 16
@wittynet Even if they have not cmmented on my posts when I respond we sort of get to know each other.
@akalinus (43332)
• United States
25 Sep 16
If I never see someone's name under a comment, I will not go looking for them. You have to be active to get anywhere here. The way you get people to interact is to interact with them.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
25 Sep 16
I agree, @akalinus. That's what I also noticed since my first day here way back 2011 or 2013. Forgive me for I'm sometimes so forgetful. I also noticed that if you comment right away, they will interact with you, but if you comment after a week or weeks or months, most of them can no longer get back to you.
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@akalinus (43332)
• United States
25 Sep 16
@wittynet I don't know about other people, but I try to keep my notifications current. So, if someone answers an old discussion, I will go and reply back to them or at least like the comment.
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
27 Sep 16
Think I look more at what is current too. It is difficult to keep up with everything. Just looking after notifications sometimes is a challenge and then other times its so quiet.
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@dyno10 (344)
25 Sep 16
it really doesn't matter to me
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
25 Sep 16
Glad to know, @dyno10! Life is too short for us to be bothered by these simple things. We should only entertain good vibes.
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@dyno10 (344)
26 Sep 16
@wittynet exactly
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
25 Sep 16
I comment and respond to discussions that interest me and I try to keep up with all the people I follow. It doesn't bother me if people respond or not. I do appreciate all the people who take the time to though. It means a lot.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
25 Sep 16
It does mean a lot, @Happy2BeMe. I feel proud if they devote their precious time to comment. There are so many discussions here and if one of yours is chosen, it does mean a lot.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
25 Sep 16
@wittynet yes it does.
@youless (112561)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Sep 16
That's alright for me. I don't care about it at all. Different people have their own styles.
@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
26 Sep 16
Well, you surely know that we earn "ONLY" if our comments are judged interesting. To be judged interesting we need that people reply to our comments. I understand that it can happen that someone does not reply. If this happens all the time I stop leaving comments to those users.
• Bournemouth, England
26 Sep 16
The majority seem to respond and that's enough. I don't think you can expect a 100% response. Maybe some people don't want to just leave a like without adding something more (which isn't always easy) so they don't reply at all. And perhaps some want to give a reply some more thought and come back to it later but don't get around to it.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
26 Sep 16
Yes, I agree, @asfarasiknow. I'm not also expecting a response whenever I comment, so I feel special whenever they get back to me just to add more comments.,
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@rina110383 (24492)
26 Sep 16
No. I don't post discussions at all. I'm not bothered if people don't comment back to the responses I left.
@thelme55 (77168)
• Germany
26 Sep 16
No, I don't. Not all of us have enough time to interact.
@ms1864 (6885)
• Bangalore, India
26 Sep 16
No. I don't dislike them...i just assume they had nothing to say to my post so they didn't. It is individual choice...can't force people.
@crafty01 (480)
• Jamshedpur, India
26 Sep 16
theres lot of interaction going on MYLOT.