Your ex vs your current spouse

Its good to do comparison between things but humans are certainly not alike but I always check the features before I take one

i don't think it is healthy to compare two persons. different people have different strengths and weaknesses. shouldn't compare. compare too much may only increase expectations. cos we tend to compare shortfalls, less of comparing strengths. maybe very seldom to i hear people comparing strengths. unless you compare and keep realising how good your current life is. then still considered ok..

I think that's not healthy in a relationship if you want it to last a long time, people are unique and I think it's unfair for your spouse to compare, I married my wife for what she is

That's something that should be in your head and shouldn't be discuss with your current. You must always believe the one you have now is more important than the previous one.

Yes, and my current wife wins out in al but one category.

I have ex....but no current, so how could I compare

I think its not good to compare those 2 people, also there is no use of that.....because you have left ex for some reasons and you are with someone else now because he has more qualities than ex. So why again you are comparing...it only cause disappointments..