An Easy Death

@RubyHawk (99405)
Atlanta, Georgia
September 26, 2016 9:01pm CST
My sister called and said her sister in law died last night. She had been sickly for awhile and in and out of the hospital. She said the lady's daughter helped her mother to get comfortable in bed and sat down quietly to read while her mother drifted off to sleep. After awhile she looked over at her mother and thought she didn't look quiet right. She walked over to the bed and saw that her mother wasn't breathing. Her name was Annalee and my sister and I were talking about what a lucky lady her sister in law was. She wasn't in the hospital on life support having needles stuck in her and tubes running out of her body. She dropped off to sleep and died. She will be missed, but she passed out of life easily without pain. I hope we could all be so lucky.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
27 Sep 16
When the time comes that is the way to go. My dad passed away in his sleep. He went to bed one night and never woke up. Mom found him in there morning. It was hard for us qtqo deal with because iqtq happened so suddenly and without warning but for him it was so peaceful, no suffering. The end of mom's life was much more difficult. May Annalee rest in peace.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Sep 16
Not easy to accept parents gone forever.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Sep 16
I'm sorry the end of your moms life was hard, we just never know, I feel that Annalee is resting in peace.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
27 Sep 16
@cacay1 No it is not. I think of them every day and miss them both so very much.
@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Sep 16
No pain is the only way to go. No one should have to suffer. She was lucky.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Sep 16
Agree
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Sep 16
I consider Annalee very lucky. She was a sweet lady.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
27 Sep 16
First my condolences and then yes, what a lovely way to pass!! It is how we all should go.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Sep 16
Thank you, it would be a lovely way to go.
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• Eugene, Oregon
27 Sep 16
My wife and I both have signed advance directives for not heroic measures to keep us "alive." I hope that they are honored.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Sep 16
So do we, I would never want to be kept alive on life support.
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@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
27 Sep 16
There is no good way to die,but when my time comes, i wish i`ll go like that, sleep and stay asleep for a very very long time
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Sep 16
I think that's the best we can ask for. Quiet, painless and easy.
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@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
27 Sep 16
@RubyHawk If only we had a choice
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Sep 16
@miniam Yes, that would be wonderful, too bad we have no choice.
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@thelme55 (77081)
• Germany
27 Sep 16
That is a good way to die. Condolence to the family.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Sep 16
thank you, she will be missed but she didn't suffer.
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@AmbiePam (92794)
• United States
27 Sep 16
That's true. What a blessed way to go.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Sep 16
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Sep 16
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
28 Sep 16
me too. sounds best way
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
28 Sep 16
it's easy for the deceased and the family to know there was no suffering.
@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
27 Sep 16
I do not want to be kept alive with tubes and needles. I have signed for this.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Sep 16
Neither do I. I wouldn't want to be kept alive by machines.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
27 Sep 16
May Annalee rest in peace.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Sep 16
Thank you and I'm sure she is.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
27 Sep 16
That's the way I want to go @RubyHawk .
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Sep 16
it's the ideal way to go. I wish it for everyone.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
27 Sep 16
My condolences. That is everyone's wish when it is time to go.
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