Are you going to marry for money?
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
September 28, 2016 12:54pm CST
Now a days, in order for you to survive, waiting for the perfect man is not an option for a gold digger.
My cousin is now engaged to her older sister's Japanese boyfriend.
The older sister was very furious about this because her sister kept their relationship with her.
The older sister agrees to help her sister for a sponsorship to be given by her Japanese boyfriend.
The Japanese boyfriend keeps sending her sister allowances for a month. Not knowing that aside from the money she felt, her sister is keeping a private message to her Japanese boyfriend.
The reason behind is, their parents want her younger sister to marry him instead of her older sister so that they can benefit from it.
Everyone knows that her sister don't have feelings for this Japanese guy, but since this Japanese guy is wealthy. She will marry him even though her older sister is in pain. Just to have his money.
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
29 Sep 16
That is a very interesting but sad story. I would not get married just for money - I hope to marry my partner some day 
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Seriously no, I would not marry someone without feelings, I am not a gigolo. I do not understand this kind of mindset. At least she will able to divorce in Japan
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
20 Oct 16
Wow that is sure complicated. I think it will be war for the sisters.
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@rina110383 (24492)
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29 Sep 16
Aside from love, before I get married, the person whom I'll marry should also be financially secure, responsible and has zero debt. A prenup is a must for me. In a way, money is a consideration for me. His money is his and my money is mine.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 16
I agree. Well, as I've said in my post before. Money can make the whole world spinning. It's all about money. But there is always a consequence for this. She's too insensitive for her older sister's feelings. It is not love if she only afterinh for his money.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Sep 16
Very sad and all the wrong reasons to get married. Money does not mean that much to be that I would marry somebody that I didn't love just for their money. If that is not bad enough she is hurting her sister and she doesn't care. She sounds very selfish if she would marry something that her sister loves and she doesn't just because he has money.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
29 Sep 16
@JustBhem I would never marry for money if I didn't love the person. I would choose love over money any day.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 16
@Happy2BeMe
Because if we love someone, everything will follows.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Oct 16
I don't know, maybe because she is younger? This Japanese boyfriend and the older sister stayed in relationshiop for 10 yrs. They rumoured the older sister of having a relationship with a local and the younger sister did the gossip. And she always messaged the Japanese and the this guy thought that the younger is so kind to let him know. And the rest is History.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
29 Sep 16
That is really sad. I definitely did not marry for money. My husband came to be with me on a bus with just a bag full of clothes. No money, no job, no home, nothing... I loved him and didn't care about him not having money.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
30 Sep 16
That is so sad that she would do that when her sister has feelings for him.
@XinfulThotz (4140)
• Singapore, Singapore
29 Sep 16
This is absurd, this family shouldn't be called "family" 
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@XinfulThotz (4140)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Sep 16
@JustBhem feel so sorry to hear that... 
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@angelare (41)
• Yogyakarta, Indonesia
7 Oct 16
Unfortunately, if you ask me, there's a lot of people doing that. It so sad to read your story but nowadays people wil do anything for money. And love will come last after that.
But I prefer to marry because my boyfriend is a hard worker, not because he's wealthy.
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