Is cheating out of control?
@JasminCottontail (57)
Philippines
October 5, 2016 1:00pm CST
Some people who are in a relationship often ask this question. In my opinion, cheating is definitely in control, however, being tempted isn't. There are times when people cheat, their reasons are always the same, they've been tempted, they weren't able to resists temptation that's why things got out of hand.
I know there are cases when a person will be tempted and will experience temptation but definitely it depends on the person being tempted if they will take the bait or not. So I guess if you did cheat, then most likely you really did wanna do it because you did do it. There are no acceptable reasons for me once a person have cheated. That person could've resist or leave instead.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
5 Oct 16
What is with people finding excuses to justify cheating? It's absurd. I agree with what you said. Temptations will be there. They aren't going anywhere. It's on us to act on it or not. lol No body is being mind controlled.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
22 Oct 16
It's the cheaters that's out of control not the cheating ..
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
5 Oct 16
I think those who cheat have their own issues it is not the relationship. I look at my brother and he is very self conscious and low self esteem. I look at my ex boyfriend he is the same way. It was all for attention.
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@snehakeshri (449)
• Mumbai, India
5 Oct 16
If the person feels guilty he is not at all a cheater after that