Kids Moving Back Home

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What is your thoughts? So far we have had the oldest son move back home a few years ago. He didn't like college and wasn't sure about the direction he was going. He did work and pay his bills which he didn't have many of. Then must of got things figured out and joined the Navy in the Nuclear Program. He is smart just didn't like the studying in college all those extra classes. He is doing good. Far away now but he is succeeding. Now, the oldest kid, daughter, has moved back home since last month. She works a lot so don't see her much. She kind of got herself in a pickle with college and bills so this way she can figure out if she really wants to continue with that degree and pay off some minor bills. She does have a boyfriend but I was happy she didn't rush into a place with him because they have had their ups and downs. And she has been through that once already with another man. I don't mind as long as they work and don't expect me to be their maid or take care of all the house. So far neither one was here enough to matter. Glad they have good work habits. Only real bad spending habit was eating out. lol...We tend to do that as an entertainment thing so they kind of learned a bad habit from us. We have stopped but I see they still like to. :) As high priced as places are to rent anymore, I don't mind them staying here as long as it is no longer than a year. Circumstances in consideration if longer. We get along and their brothers love it since there is an age gap. I think it doesn't bother me because I am not working outside the home so I get time with them that I never had when they were little. What is your opinion of grown kids moving back home?