I found my first crush on FB... shall i send him a friend request?

@shaynas (5487)
India
October 11, 2016 5:34am CST
Nothing can be better than such a coincidence, the other day i talked here about my crush, and today i found him on FB. Though i searched him earlier as well, but could not find as i only knew his first name, and he has such a common name. I am not sure shall i send him a friend request? We never interacted while in school, so I am not sure if he will recognize me. It's not that I am still interested in him or anything, I am a happily married women now, But just a thought passed if i Can add him on FB. What do u suggest my friends?
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@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
11 Oct 16
Go girl.. There's nothing wrong with that. You know I tried to find my crushes too on fb but I can't find one. Huhuhu.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
11 Oct 16
He has kept his profile locked for new requests. I only cam send him personal msgs.. wondering if i should?
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
11 Oct 16
@shaynas Go ahead and send him a message. Do you think your husband would mind?
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
11 Oct 16
@Happy2BeMe No... my husband won't ! I am dropping him a msg. fingers crossed :)
• United States
12 Oct 16
Nothing wrong with it.
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• United States
12 Oct 16
@shaynas Maybe he has not seen it yet.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
12 Oct 16
@infatuatedbby yea... hope so! But even if he does, i doubt he will still remember me, it's about one and a half decade past, plus we hardly ever talked. So, it's perfectly normal if he doesn't recognize me.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
12 Oct 16
I already did. No response yet.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
12 Dec 16
It is an old discussion of yours. I saw it today. Did you get any response from your crush?
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
13 Dec 16
@shaynas There could be many reasons due to which he did not respond and it is difficult to guess the precise reason(s), therefore, it would be better to forget this episode.
@shaynas (5487)
• India
12 Dec 16
Nah...i did not :)
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
13 Dec 16
@dpk262006 yeah, i already did :)
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@skysnap (20153)
11 Oct 16
Be safe on internet. And for the rest have fun. Sorry my protective instinct kicked in. But if other guys act creep it affect us too as we get burned in generalization. :D
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@XinfulThotz (4140)
• Singapore, Singapore
11 Oct 16
Just add him. No harm to have a new friend
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
11 Oct 16
Thanks... i hope he would recognize me :)
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@Ruchitha (131)
• Bangalore, India
11 Oct 16
Yes, do send a request. Now as you are happy with your life, childhood crushes are sweet memories.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
11 Oct 16
seem he has blocked the request options. I only can send a message. won't it be too cheesy?
@shaynas (5487)
• India
11 Oct 16
@Ruchitha ok.. will do that. Thanks for encouragement ! hugs to u :)
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@Ruchitha (131)
• Bangalore, India
11 Oct 16
@shaynas just drop him a message casually if he does not respond ,ignore
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
16 Oct 16
I think it is OK. After all, you have a happy family now and he may also have his happy family. It is fine for you to be friends. Even if he doesn't accept your friend request, you still won't lose anything
@shaynas (5487)
• India
16 Oct 16
He did not respond. I think he may not be interested or did not recognize me. But anyways, its fine. I did not expect him to.
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