why are people so rude here

Okay thanks for the suggestion. I didn't create this post but will add to it and if the OP wants to elaborate what they mean - can as well. I'll listen. Without mentioning names I've seen over the course of many months and not frequently but on several instances rudeness. I find the yellow "rasp" between blush and glare in myLot code rude but that is matter of opinion. I find it rude when I see posts like "shut up" or "if you don't like it leave". There are a few other things I could mention as rude but I don't want to overwhelm you.

@Bluedoll shut up is rude, if you don't like it leave is maybe rude but that's borderline depending on context. The rasp thing I don't see as rude at all, but as you say, that's a matter of opinion...I don't personally use that one as I don't know what it means

invite me to your world please! keeping in mind that the internet is a vulgar piece of ugly - its not rude, so I will agree but to say it is perfect or there is never rudeness of any kind, might not be accurate.

@Bluedoll I didn't say that there wasn't rudeness or mean people on here or on the internet. I just said I have NEVER encountered anyone on MYLOT that was mean or rude to me. Most of us on here are pretty nice to everyone and believe it or not but also very supportive of one another. So to just say that it is full of meanness or rude people or things is also NOT very ACCURATE either. Some of use want to see others succeed and do well in life.

@CaseyRoss9966 Yep I agree, I too have met nice people, very helpful and supportive. I'm all for that. If this is all you have found then do run with it. Seriously, congrats and spread it around. However, I'm not going to be payed bill board. You are right of course it is not full of meanness and rude people but then I didn't read that here except from your comment. Not in my comment, not on the title and not on the post. So where is the accuracy?

Is this topic rated as "R"? R=rude The OP has not identified what the nature of the rudeness is. I suspect it is one of those posts where the poster doesn't wish to elaborate? Why? In any case what you wrote about internet forums is very true. It is also true in my opinion that all admin's of websites on the internet can do very little about rudeness in general since it is relative to different people. Unless it is extreme of course then action can take place. It all depends on how you define rudeness. Certainly lanquage is one area but there are many other forms of rudeness. Don't you agree?

@owlwings I think it is now called Trumpism.

Yeah .... I know