Im inlove again....
By genereal74
@genereal74 (158)
Philippines
21 responses
@Glenn2007 (235)
• United States
25 Nov 06
well thens you not ready to get a Reall Relationship with anybody
if you commited to one and you fall in love with other one thens you not real for the Committed to Married and sit down and get a family start yet
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@smalltowngal (247)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Thats exactly right. If it is true love, nothing will ever make those feelings change. If you are married and someone comes along, its always better to step back and take a look at the entire picture. and really think about how you feel. Its a huge deal to cheat on someone. most of the time, the one being cheated on gets the raw deal. If the person is not married, then its better to find out now before getting married. Just be honest about the feelings involved.
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
yeah that is true..so if you are still getting married you have to think it not only twice but more than twice because time can never be back..once you are there you cannot return it back.
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
thanks....i understand that. And i value marriage so much.But what will you do if the other party do that first to you?
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
•
25 Nov 06
make a decision to who you want to be and finish it with the other one, its not fair as if you carry on with 2 people it is just going to lead to hurt and alot of pain, it would be best to be happy instead of always worrying because you know that you are doing something wrong
i know that this is not easy but i wish you luck
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
yeah, its a tough decision to make...but if that someone dont love you anymore maybe it will be the best decision i have to do..thanks
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
yup it is and very tougher it will be. But life doesnt end there..and life is what we make it ....so continue what you think is right and what i think that can make me happy.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
26 Nov 06
if i'm committed, i'd be fair to my partner and honor my commitment. you're not responsible for your emotions but you're totally responsible for your reactions.
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
very true.. character is what you are but reputation is what others think you are. But i think its not inportant, what is important is you know what your doing and you know you will be happy.
@kage2k3 (1443)
• India
26 Nov 06
I think you make commitment to only the person who you are in love with. So if you are already in love with one person then how can you be in love with another person. That could only mean one thing that either you didnt love the first person or you dont love the second person
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
yup i agree..you cant do the same thing at the same time.I know that too. But for me i cant love a person if i still have loved another one. So it means i dont love him anymore.
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
yup im really hoping for it and when that time comes it will be a time when the decision will come in..if im right or wrong.
@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
26 Nov 06
choose who u want and dont change ur mind, n try destract urself from thinkin other person
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
yeah..choose who you want and hoping that somone is true to you but no matter what, what is important is he/she is the one who you want to be with.and most of all he is the one whom you will be happy..
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
yeah because its not easy to hurt someone...do not do unto others what you dont want others to do unto you..
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
that will be good.If i have also a good one i may not love another one too.
@Phlamingho (7825)
• Denmark
26 Nov 06
Well if the other person dosen't feel the same way about you then there's not much to do about it. If he / she does then you have to make up your mind who you'd rather be with. It's as simple as that (even tought that's hard enough).
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
thanks for that..it may be a tough decision to make but it becomes simplier if the other party has cheated you first..its good to fall in love because not all oof us are given thta special gift to be love...it is anice feeling for us right?
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
yes thats true.And if he has real love to he will not find someone else..right?so that means he dont have love anymore coz he is doing that.thanks.
@Metallion (2227)
• United States
25 Nov 06
well the only way you would fall in love with another (unless you are actually falling in lust without knowing the person) is if you are cheating on the person you are already with. If so you better end your first relationship because you obviously don't care about that person and proved that by cheating on them.
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
okay thanks for the comment but i its not me who first cheat...and i will not do the first bad move that i will know can ruin the relationship.But if the other party cheats i cant anymore trust him so love will goes out.
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
yeah but sometimes we cant say who is better unless time comes that we may be hurt or not..so what is important is we are ready to fall down and we must know how to rise again from falling down.
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
yeah i agree with you but it could be happier in the other side..who knows...we all deserve to be happy..thank you.
@hotredblnd788 (224)
• United States
25 Nov 06
Out with the old and in with the new. You should never keep the other person hooked if you are having feelings for another person. It is just wrong no matter how you look at it. It might be hard to break things off but it's just the right thing to do. It will make everyone happier in the end. Good Luck!!!
@genereal74 (158)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
yeah that is true...if you dont love anymore you have to find someone else that will love you..we need to be love to know we are existing here on earth andd we need love to make the world colorful for us.
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
26 Nov 06
You are screwed then, aren't you? I feel sorry for you.
@vishwas_niraj (2759)
• India
26 Nov 06
Touch wood it never happens with me .. we love each other very much .. And i dont think for do something ...
@hermanica (390)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
good for you sis...just be carefulll being inlove has been an exciting feeling...
