Would you try to help your ex?

@Inyia1 (26)
Nairobi, Kenya
October 24, 2016 1:50am CST
I recently learned that things were not going so great for my ex and i felt concerned. Background: things between my ex and i didnt end on a good note and we hava child he does not support. I most definitely would never take him back so dont think am about to make that mistake. am just at cross roads because a part of me wants to help while the other part says his life is none of my business as bad as things are. What would you do?
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
24 Oct 16
I know how you feel I would feel the same way but you owe him nothing. If things ended good and he supported his child then I can see you helping him but under the circumstances I don't think I would.
@XinfulThotz (4140)
• Singapore, Singapore
24 Oct 16
I wouldn't help since things didn't end on good note and furthermore he didn't make any effort to support his child.
• United States
24 Oct 16
I am not in your situation so I wouldn't know. But, by reading your scenario - I wouldn't and the fact you two have a child together and he doesn't support his own child???
@AkoPinay (11544)
• Philippines
24 Oct 16
I would if both of us are not in a relationship with someone. He is the father of your child anyway so it's better if you forgive and become friends at least for child's sake. I wont if we are in a relationship with someone, just to avoid more troubles.
@ms1864 (6885)
• Bangalore, India
24 Oct 16
I wouldn't. If you have parted ways with a child in the picture, it would have been for a good reason. You don't wanna be going back to all that.