Lied to borrow money.

Vietnam
October 24, 2016 9:49pm CST
Yesterday, one of my neighbors have asked to borrow some money. The reason is because her mother was hospitalized stroke. But then I found out that she had lied. Her mother was well, and she only borrowed money to attend the wedding of her grandson. Why would she do that? I think that should not be taken for health reasons of relatives to borrow money. Do you think so?
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• United States
25 Oct 16
She knew if she told the truth you wouldn't let her borrow.
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• Vietnam
25 Oct 16
Maybe. But she can tell me another reasons, right?
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• United States
25 Oct 16
@tkonlinevn Yes, but she thought a lie would be easier?
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• Vietnam
26 Oct 16
@infatuatedbby Maybe you're right. She can think that reason will be easier to convince me.
@youless (112492)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Oct 16
That's so terrible that your neighbors lied to you. I would feel betrayed. Hopefully they will return the money to you as soon as possible. This will be the best situation. But I am sorry to say that they already lost their credits.
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• Vietnam
26 Oct 16
I'm feel betrayed, too. But I hope that she'll not lost her credits :)
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• Vietnam
26 Oct 16
@bluebirdfly It's no problem because she don't know that I have discovered that she lied.
• Guangzhou, China
26 Oct 16
@tkonlinevn i wonder to know how can her face to you when she return the money.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
26 Oct 16
Oh , that is a very bad lie just to borrow money . She could just have told you the truth that she would want to buy a gift for the wedding of her grandson , but have no money yet .
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• Vietnam
27 Oct 16
I were sad and upset because what happen. She doesn't lie, right?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
27 Oct 16
@tkonlinevn Yes , she lied . It maybe be a "white" lie but still she lied .
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• Vietnam
27 Oct 16
@SIMPLYD And the reason is very bad. I wonder what happen if her mother is not healthy after she lied?!
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
25 Oct 16
pretending a family member is seriously ill is a terrible excuse. i hope you follow her up so she can pay you, but don't let her borrow money from you again. tell her you have important expenses coming up.
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• Vietnam
25 Oct 16
Thank you for your advice.I'll do that. I hope she'll understand what I'm feel.
• Guangzhou, China
26 Oct 16
i 'll loan to my friend who need help, and if he can return back ontime. your neighbor ask you for some money just to attend the wedding.perhelps she did not want to let you know the renson. maybe she thought her reason would be more simple.but her monther would be unhappy if she know the joke.
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• Vietnam
26 Oct 16
Not only her mother, I'm too. I feel unhappy when she used this reason.
@Ayuriny (5144)
• Denpasar, Indonesia
25 Oct 16
She might be trapped in certain situation, and therefore she borrowed some money from you eventhough she had to make a lie. But I think she shouldn't use that reason for borrowing money from you. So what happened then after you found out her mother was actually well?
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• Vietnam
25 Oct 16
I still not meet her from she borrowed me. But I feel not good. Maybe I will not ask her an explaining about the reason. I think that is her thinking. I just feel it's not good if we lied about health of our relatives to borrow money.
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• Vietnam
25 Oct 16
@Ayuriny Yes, that's all I'm thinking. So, I feel upset a little bit.
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@Ayuriny (5144)
• Denpasar, Indonesia
25 Oct 16
@tkonlinevn Yeah, I agree on that. How if her mother became really ill after she made the lie??
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@franxav (13837)
• India
25 Oct 16
Now that you know, next time you can refuse giving her any money.
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• Vietnam
25 Oct 16
Yes, I'm thinking about that. I must say that she borrowed me many times before. The reasons is about her mother health, too. I don't believe that why a person can do like that with their mom :(