Why do some people feel the need to leave a rude comment rather then scroll on by?
By Laurel (L_B)
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
Canada
October 28, 2016 9:14am CST
I just blocked somebody on here. I am dealing with health issues and the last thing I need is more stress. I realize that not everybody on here cares about what I post or my health so why not just scroll on by and go to the next discussion. Different discussions appeal to different people.
If I come across a discussion that doesn't interest me I keep scrolling.I don't open the discussion and be mean or nasty. That is just not who I am. I could never be that disrespectful to anyone.
Anyway I just felt that I needed to vent. Thank you to all of those who respond to my discussions. I always enjoy reading about what everybody is up to and how they day is going.
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57 responses
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
28 Oct 16
Some people are just snarky and never say anything nice and social media is another avenue of spewing their venom.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Oct 16
@JohnRoberts , I agree with you.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Oct 16
@Happy2BeMe Enjoy the rest of the day there.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Oct 16
@amadeo thank you. I hope you enjoy your day as well.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Oct 16
I'm sorry someone was rude to you! You of all people do not deserve that at all. I do the same, if I'm not interested in a discussion I just move to the next one. No reason for rudeness.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Oct 16
@LovingMyBabies, That person might have mental problem.LOL.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Oct 16
Thanks Jennifer. It is hard to understand people sometimes.
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
I agree. I get that a lot. People say to report it but I don't because that just shows how true they are in a way.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Oct 16
Yes I see it happen a lot on your discussions. You handle it well.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
28 Oct 16
How unfortunate that you came across a nasty person here. You did what you had to do. I've also blocked a few creeps, but unfortunately see their ugly faces and boring posts from time to time. Venting here is good for the soul. I hope you are feeling better today.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
28 Oct 16
@Happy2BeMe I'm sure that rude comment didn't help your bp any! Grrrrr
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Oct 16
Thanks Dianne I am finally starting to feel better. My blood pressure was much better today but not down to normal yet.
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
28 Oct 16
Sometimes its a misunderstanding. I just got one where I said sometimes its better to be alone and the person thought I meant because of them. Not what I meant. Misunderstandings happen. But there are some that leave little nasty's as they think its smart i guess. I'm not dealing with this anymore either. Enough.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Oct 16
Yes it is not something we have to tolerate.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Oct 16
@Bluedoll yes that is true. I rather just walk away.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
28 Oct 16
Oh I'm so sorry that this has happened to you, you seem such a sweet person. I can't understand people being rude here - as you say, they can scroll on by. I must say I've never come across any rudeness here, perhaps I've just been lucky.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Oct 16
This is a first for me and hopefully the last. There are so many years wondeful people on here.
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@1creekgirl (41692)
• United States
28 Oct 16
You are so right. If someone isn't interested in a post, just keep going. There's never an excuse for being rude.
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
28 Oct 16
Though I respect both your ideas it will not change one thing. It doesn't matter how a person was raised or what a person thinks. Rudeness will continue. I don't mean my rudeness here, I mean rudeness in general in one form or another. It's just the way people are. Some don't even see it as rudeness. They call it teasing or dis - ing.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Oct 16
Thankn Vicki that is how I was raised too.
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@Deepizzaguy (103967)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
29 Oct 16
I know what you mean. Some cretins at You Tube and Facebook are so out of touch with being kind I always tell them "Your common sense did not get past security at Marcos Gelabert Airport in Albrook Panama." and then block them.
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@Deepizzaguy (103967)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
29 Oct 16
@Happy2BeMe I got the idea from the movie Rocky IV.
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@Talknpen (1820)
• United States
28 Oct 16
Hi L_B. That is a good question that you have asked. It never really occurred to me to be anything but open to discussing. When I feel attacked, I will say a few things that allow the mylotter to rethink his or her course of communication. Sometimes, people may not understand or it is how they are.
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@Talknpen (1820)
• United States
28 Oct 16
@Happy2BeMe Good idea. There are not too many reasons to have conflict here.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Oct 16
Yes you are right. I am not one for conflict so I would rather just walk away.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
28 Oct 16
Yeah some people are like that. They comment nonsense. Dont care about them, we are always here with you.
Actually if I dont have to say anything or just cant agree with anyones post, I just keep scrolling down... No need to leave rude comments
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@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
28 Oct 16
I don't know why some people aren't nice. Life is to short and I prefer to just move on when people don't be nice. Have a good day.
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@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
28 Oct 16
I am an extremely snarky person. But not on myLot.
Here too I would comment on a discussion that doesn't interest me much, but instead of being nasty I just try to appear smarty. That much is permissible, right?
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@vandana7 (100533)
• India
29 Oct 16
It is not that I was not interested in knowing about your health. I come here for a few minutes now and then. Notifications take me to whichever post. And then I leave. Sometimes, I check the posts of my followers, at other times, top discussions of the day. Sometimes I say hello to my friends in the same post. I have no rules that this is the sequence I need to follow each day because when I can come here, and how much time I can spend here varies. I am guilty of wording things wrongly. If I ever did that, I apologize. In general, I am concerned about fellow myLotter's health, not because interactions fetch me a few pennies but because this is kinda my family. Love...hugs..tc.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
29 Oct 16
Thanks. I appreciate your sweet comment. I feel the same way when it comes to people on here. They are like family to me and I enjoy reading their posts and I am concerned when it is about their health.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Oct 16
So sa why is that someone so rude to someone nice , sweet and cool like you.There are really impotent-minded person.He/ she might lack common sense and care to human being like you that needs moral support at least to inspire you. I hope you are at peace now and your blood is in normal level. Just ignore that person my dear.It's he / she lost a caring and thoughtful mylotter.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
29 Oct 16
Thanks for your kind and supportive comment. It means so much to me. My blood pressure has been dropping but not enough yet.