Do you wanna have one night love?
@shenzhouplaza (1676)
China
12 responses
@tigrashadow (1086)
• Australia
14 Dec 06
you dont mention whether its while you are with someone or not....
if you have a partner, one nite stands are cheating. (unless you both get into partner swapping/swinging)
but i dont see a huge problem with it as a single person as long as its not overboard..
i personally went through a stage of only having one nite stands with men because i was too afraid of meeting and getting close to someone who may abuse me again...
@tigrashadow (1086)
• Australia
14 Dec 06
but of course, as with anything, protection must be adhered to for it to be a safe thing to be doing and birth control also if you dont want to get pregnant to a one niter
@shenzhouplaza (1676)
• China
15 Dec 06
One night stand sometimes is more exciting and it makes your life colourful. and of sourse, this colourful life is always at the cost of something.
@SteelyDanFan (71)
• United States
26 Nov 06
I think that it is up to the couple whether it is ok.
People have different needs, wants expectations etc. If a couple with the same needs, wants and expectations get together for just one night...than that will probably work. Only that particular couple on that particular night can say for sure.
But, because of the intense emotions and potential for disease, illness and unwanted pregnancy...it is a risky proposition at best.
Much care needs to be taken when it comes to this.
Personally though, I am all for it!
@shenzhouplaza (1676)
• China
26 Nov 06
Thank your for your constructive comments. A + rating is given to you.
:)
@Antianara (608)
• Australia
26 Nov 06
well... first off. it's got nothing to do with love, it's a one night stand and as for it being good or bad that depends on the person.
the wicca have a saying "do as ye will yet harm ye none" which means do whatever you want just don't hurt anyone doing it. so as long as everyone knows and is ok with it being a one night thing(and neither party is attached I.e married) then it's not bad.
@shenzhouplaza (1676)
• China
26 Nov 06
Yeah, the most important thing is "do as ye will yet harm ye none". :)
@angel_manders (912)
• Canada
14 Dec 06
i feel it is wrong because i feel that you should love the person and knoe the person you are getting together with.
@shenzhouplaza (1676)
• China
15 Dec 06
Yeah different people have different idea about this issue. here i would like to ask you another question. do you believe: fall in love at the first sight?
@heartonfire (4119)
• Denmark
26 Nov 06
hmm you mean a one-night stand?...it depends,if you are not in a relationship,then it's your choice and if you feel like it go for it...i did it once,but i regret it,cause i don't know what i was thinking..it wasn't a stranger,was one of my friends..and all of the sudden it happened,i still don't know why...i wouldn't do it again,only if it would be with a guy that i really really like and the timing is right..
@ruby82 (411)
• China
26 Nov 06
I don't think one night love is good,though it is very irritant and fresh,it is irresponsible for each other.I can't accept this behavior.
