3 Important rules to follow in life!

loads of people out there won't help you you just have to do it yourself i don't think you got my point tho

@ko31024 Well, if we really think about it, why won't most people help us? There are countless reasons of course but if we help them in their time of needs, I am sure that in some way they can help you during your time of needs, maybe not directly, but they can compensate for it through prayers, encouragement, love, etc. So basically, we actually need to at least trust a person or trust God if we want to grow emotionally or spiritually. But on your premise on the last phrase, it always starts inside when we want something. Of course you will be dependent to others to get what you want, but you 'will' need others to get what you want. So it's kind of give and take in the real world.

@GopherDanny I agree with you. We get what we give. I've been taught since kid to be nice to others and help others when they need. And now I grow up, I received a lot of helpful things from people around me. When I wanted to learn Internet 20 years ago, my friend lent me a modem. When I had problem with my career, my friends helped me. When I made mistake that lost lots of money, my friend lent me. When I was sick, my friend took me to the clinic. When I was bored at home, my friends asked and accompanied me to watch movies. I can't think what I will be now without them.