~ The Negative Has To Stop~

Filling your life with those positives will leave less space for the negative person. Just think how poor their inner life is that they have nothing positive to say.

About 10 years ago I stopped communicating with nearly every person in my life including family. The negativity was so bad I just couldn't take it anymore. It wasn't all at once but slowly. My life has so much less drama and negativity in it. When I feel down I just remind myself that all bills are paid, roof over my head food in the cupboard, it could always be worse. I try to be the person that believes the glass is half full. Works for me most of the time. I'm happy now the majority of the time. life is to short to let others bring you down.

It's perfectly okay to distance yourself from negative people. I wouldn't invite someone who couldn't keep the negativity in check during a child's birthday party to any other event I was hosting.

What a shame to ruin a birthday party with negative comments. This is so sad.

Negative Nellies are Debbie Downers.

Negative people will bring you down even if you try your best not to let them get to you. It is hard to live a positive life when somebody around you is constantly complaining and growling. I could not handle that. All you can do is keep praying. I am sorry you are going though this. You open up your home to somebody to help them out. It just doesn't seem fair that you have to deal with that.

I'm sorry that you've had to deal with so many negative comments. I can't believe that you had to deal with it during a birthday party. It's not the time or place for that, in my opinion.

Oh no - is this regarding new guest in your home??

Amen, trusting and having faith only in Him will get you through the darkest hour.

just continue what your doing things will get better

yes that is true but we should consider other people's ideas also sometimes though they sound negative it may be the truth,.

I hate to be around negative people. I love the picture you chose for this post as it's serene and beautiful

You and your husband need to sit down with Aunt Mary, after the children are in bed (asleep) and tell her she needs to make other arrangements. Give her a date, no more than two weeks to move out. You need to remove this negativity from your family. It is not fair to your family that YOU chose to bring this into your home.

I am sorry you have to deal with this.

I'm finding it almost impossible to be anything but negative. There is no hope for the future, things can only get worse. With an avowed Communist as president, as well as impending war with Russia, and unlimited Third World invasion, (and no hope of ever turning things around) there is no hope for the country. And my family is mostly all split up and scattered, so I have no personal hopes or dreams to look forward to either. I'm just going to take one day at a time, and try to get through it. At least knowing that there is nothing to look forward to will ensure that I own't be disappointed when nothing good happens.

Some people will always see the fault of other people and will not stop complaining which is sad.

I hope it all works out for you.

Negativity is very wearing. I presume it is the aunt who is so negative. She probably doesn't even realise what she's doing.

Is that the aunt again?

True everyone wants peace and good life. If we complain everyday then we cannot enjoy even one day of our life. Negative will bring negative. So guys think positive always.