How? =(

Singapore, Singapore
November 10, 2016 11:07pm CST
I met this girl recently. on the first day i met her, she was crying very sadly. She is only very young. about 18. Got pregnant. 3 or 4 months already. Insist on addressing me as "mommy" told me that her mum just passed away. claimed that she has the same date of birth as me. she is pregnant with twins; one boy and one girl. she has been spamming me with calls and messages. and making me feel uncomfortable about it. it's like an obligation and being coerced. she is being very nice and friendly. just that she needs a hell lot of attention, which i am unable to provide. what would you do if you were me? please advise. i am going crazy.... Image Credit: Google images
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@ms1864 (6885)
• Bangalore, India
11 Nov 16
I am actually very cautious of people who get attached to me too fast....i find it very uncomfortable.
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@ms1864 (6885)
• Bangalore, India
11 Nov 16
you might want to avoid her messages for a day or two...it might send her the message that you are not constantly available to her.
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• Singapore, Singapore
11 Nov 16
@ms1864 ya, i intend to do that from now..
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• Singapore, Singapore
11 Nov 16
that's what i feel too. she is really getting attached to me too fast...
• United States
11 Nov 16
Oh no. That's one hard situation Where did you meet this girl??
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• Singapore, Singapore
11 Nov 16
i met her on BIGO. its an app that is trending these days so i downloaded to try.
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• United States
11 Nov 16
@XinfulThotz Oh I never heard of that app. Is it an app that you meet people locally or internationally? Does she FaceTime so you know it's really her and not someone lying?? It's hard to trust people on the internet. :
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• Singapore, Singapore
11 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby It's a live video streaming kind of app. where you can earn beans that can be converted to money too. I think pregnant is true. other than that i have my doubts. even though normal people won't say that their mum just passed away... so you know, it's like there is something amiss somewhere. and i just don't feel very comfortable. maybe cos of the age gap, maybe cos of the constant spamming of calls and messages. i seldom block people. but i blocked her phone calls.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
1 Dec 16
Have you asked her why is she spamming you ? Maybe she needs help .
@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
11 Nov 16
oops.... im so confused... no idea about handling such situation. but I if I was you, I will not ask for unnecessary troubles like this