How do you manage un-thankful people?
By Jenning
@Jenning (2016)
Nigeria
November 11, 2016 3:37pm CST
Hi friend.
I don't know about you, but for me, it's such a pain when someone gets a favor from me, and cannot even say a simple 'Thank you'. O boiii, so painful to even think about. I have learnt in my life to give to all men, expecting nothing back, not even a thank you, and that has helped me a lot in my dealings with people even if they don't get to say thank you.
What about you, how do you deal with such people?
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@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
11 Nov 16
I give when I want to give. I don´t expect thanks.
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@Jenning (2016)
• Nigeria
11 Nov 16
@marguicha I had to learn that because it helps relax the nerves indeed. Beautiful one Darling...
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@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
11 Nov 16
@Jenning We all have to learn this. It´s not something you learn at birth.
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@Jenning (2016)
• Nigeria
12 Nov 16
@marguicha For sure. Experience teaches you of course.
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@Jenning (2016)
• Nigeria
12 Nov 16
@JudyEv You see? That's what they get and you cannot be blamed for it. Nevertheless, we should not change because of others, we can keep helping them when they need it but point their attention to their errors so they will learn and turn from their error.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
12 Nov 16
Well someone lives with me that's like that and it's very hard. I just try to remember I am doing the right thing-even if they aren't.
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@Jenning (2016)
• Nigeria
12 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies And GOD gats your reward on that....
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@iamshane487 (1139)
• Manila, Philippines
12 Nov 16
I've met ungrateful people like that.
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@iamshane487 (1139)
• Manila, Philippines
12 Nov 16
@Jenning no but I stayed away from them. Really turned me off.
@Ayuriny (5144)
• Denpasar, Indonesia
12 Nov 16
I never took it seriously. Saying thank you is not the only way to express appreciation to the one who has given us favour. I'm already satisfied that I could help them or give them something they need accordingly. So, whether they say thank you or not, I never mind it.
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@sandipguchait (69)
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12 Nov 16
There is nothing much to do with people who doesnt even show care or some respect to someone ..its just their own manners that they have developed ..
one single person cant change them ...
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@Jenning (2016)
• Nigeria
12 Nov 16
@sandipguchait It's such a bad attitude. And how do you get to cope with them? Have you had any of these type of folks around you before? Do they hurt?
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@sandipguchait (69)
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12 Nov 16
@Jenning yea many a times ...it kinda sucks .iean I can't express the feeing but man it sucks ...
There's not to do to deal to it ...i mean I don't do anything to deal with it ..
@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
12 Nov 16
I don't have to deal with ungrateful people because they rid themselves out of my life ..
@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 16
I don't even think about it anymore. It's so common here that people do not say thank you, do not show courtesy of any kind, and are so full of themselves they can't see beyond their nose to the rest of the world around them.
However, I do notice it when people do say thank you and do show common courtesy. It's like a warm spring shower, delightful.
@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
12 Nov 16
This is the minimum manners one should know and follow. I generally avoid such people or if they are elderly and matured . For youngers, teenagers and kids to teach them what and how one should be grateful to others by saying so.
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@Jenning (2016)
• Nigeria
12 Nov 16
@shivamani10 And they begin to wonder why the next time they are not given so much attention as they received the other time.
