What I learned from my disabled parent

@Jackalyn (7558)
Oxford, England
November 14, 2016 3:09am CST
My Dad lost the use of everything but his five senses and one arm. It happened slowly from the time I was eleven. He had to stop teaching me tennis, but he could still try He painted pictures till he could not paint. He travelled till he could not travel. A wheelchair does not stop you. He did everything till the day he could not do it and then he did what he could. He designed posters, rattled tins for charity. Went to the Organ society. Now he has that one arm he still visits a social club, goes out to dinner. He still has an opinion and tries to use a tablet. There is quality of life even when most of it is stolen from you and always some way to carry on I would hate to be disabled, but I will always know that you do what you do till you can do it no more and then you look for the things you can do.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
14 Nov 16
Your father is amazing . He really made use of what he can until he can't anymore . Why what was his disability by the way ?
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@Jackalyn (7558)
• Oxford, England
14 Nov 16
Multiple Sclerosis
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Nov 16
@Jackalyn Oh so it's that .
@topffer (42156)
• France
14 Nov 16
It is great when you can keep the same zest for life than your father when you are disabled. Sadly, it is not true for all disabled persons.
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• Philippines
14 Nov 16
you both get strength from each other ;)
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@skysnap (20153)
14 Nov 16
it's hard to carry on in life.
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
14 Nov 16
This is a great example of someone who did not give up. Complaining and feeling depressed brings nowhere, but there are people who were not born fighters.
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@JudyEv (342277)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Nov 16
What a wonderful, courageous man your father must be. And what a great role model for his daughter. I have the utmost admiration for him.
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• Pamplona, Spain
14 Nov 16
He is really wonderful to have that love for life like he does. I donĀ“t know anyone like that at all around me. Hugs to your Dad.
@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
14 Nov 16
I'm so sorry your father he has had his life changed like that, but undoubtedly ha has made the best of what he has. It's amazing what can be done with determination and some lateral thinking. He is certainly an inspiration. I hope he has found happiness and fulfilment in spite of everything.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
14 Nov 16
He is an amazing and wonderful man. He has set such a great example for you. I can see why you are so very proud. When life got tough, he got tougher!