Can someone tell me how to be parents back in harmony?

Sometimes the best thing for a family as a whole is for the parents to split up. I'm not one of those who believes it is best to stay together for the sake of children.

You are not responsible for their breakup so you can not make them reconcile no matter how badly you want it to happen. There are reasons that they choose to separate and it is up to them to deal with those problems. No matter what you say or do it will not change things. I am sorry.

This is something that only both parents can do. There´s nothing the children can do for them.

sometimes we never have to try to fix things and let time work on it.

I am sorry your parents are not happy together. Sometimes these things happen and all you can do is accept the situation.

I think you should talk to them openly from your heart... ask them how happy they were when all of this was normal... after all nothing is impossible my friend ...only one moment is enough to change everything!

it is not the children's responsibility to reconcile their parents. we can only do enough. in the end, it is their decision and whatever their decision is, we should just accept it and move on. i know it is easier said than done, but still can be done.

I too have been a silent spectator of the slow disintegration of my parents' relations, and I've tried unsuccessfully many times to reconcile them. I know how you're feeling. I keep feeling guilty of not doing enough from my part. I think you'll have to accept it. I feel bad for you, but it takes time.