Sometimes I feel so Disappointed....
By Amanda
@amandajay (23264)
New Zealand
November 28, 2016 7:23am CST
As good wife and a mother of two daughters, I always try to give my best for them...
I make food, wash their clothes and iron them, polish their shoes, wash the car, clean the house and bathroom, I do all the work at home, eaxh and everything.
Sometimes I do many work even carrying my little one in one hand. After doing all these things I get only little time for my self....
I make foods, let them eat, and then they start their own work... I wash the dishes clean the kitchen carrying my little one in one hand...
But,,,,
Noone ever ask "Did you eat" or "Are you tired"... I dont need any help for my work. But even a little word can help...
Have you ever experience these kind of things? Im so disappointed... But I never miss even a little thing of them...
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7 responses
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Nov 16
They appreciate all that you do for them as a mother and a wife. Sometimes people just aren't very good at showing their appreciation and maybe your husband does not realize how you are feeling.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
28 Nov 16
Yeah may be... But today I was very upset... Now feeling better
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
29 Nov 16
@amandajay glad to hear you are feeling better. We all have those days.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
29 Nov 16
@Happy2BeMe yeah. This is life... I have to face it
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@prabir12345 (530)
• India
28 Nov 16
@amandajay they are very little and your loved one. So your should not have any expectations from them......lol
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Nov 16
Being a wife and mom is a thankless job, at least until the children become parents themselves. Then they realize how much we do every day for them. =)
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
28 Nov 16
Very true... Actually I dont need thanksgivings... But they can at least take care of little one until I do our home work and other things...
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
28 Nov 16
Yeah regarding children its normal... But I cant understand why he is behaving like this. Im helpless. No use of showing him my feelings
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
30 Nov 16
Yes... Most of the days it happens.. They just have their meals, do their work and go to sleep... Never want to know whether I have meals or not... So sad
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@Hari101 (1123)
• Chennai, India
28 Nov 16
Don't feel disappointed. I can see that you are feeling low for no one is asking you of your wellness but such is life especially if you are a mother and a wife. Same thing my mom experienced and one day she talked about this with me, father and my brother and she told how she is feeling. So we understood what is on her mind. So speak to them, Everything will be alright. Don't worry. :)
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
28 Nov 16
I tried to make them understand.. Daughters are still small, but he should understand.. Will see may be they will realize in future
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@neersha (248)
• Delhi, India
28 Nov 16
Actually, its all happen as every moment we always do for others. They never think of us because we do not tell them how important we are for them. this is all our fault not others. first we like to help and provide each and every support for family members. when they became habitual of it. whenever we fail to do the routine work they start complaining to us. Because now we make them dependent on us .
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
28 Nov 16
Yes.. What yiu said is absolutely correct. When we help them they take it as our duty... What ever is my situation, they need their work to be done...
