Home alone... / myLot

December 2, 2016 9:48am CST

Since my baby sister moved out of my little nest for her futher studies, I am all alone. I feel Lovely. Hell my own home feels haunted. It is soo quite here I can hear the cells in my body divide. Strangely now I don't feel like doing anything. People say I must give it some time all will we fine. Well I ask them can I fast forward this part of my life. And skip to the end where my sis comes back and we fight again over who will cook or who will clean. Maybe this time I will treat her better share my shoes with her as well.. I wish I would have loved her more... After all she is my baby sister. She is doing good as of now got the best College of the country. I just miss her a lot

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Annastasiaaaaaa

@annastasiaaaaaa (727)

• Philippines

2 Dec 16

You'll get by for sure. Enjoy every feeling, good or bad. Everything has a purpose. :)

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Mansi Awasthi

@Helpingmana (208)

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2 Dec 16

@annastasiaaaaaa Girl you are frank, funny and sweet. Thanks dear

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Annastasiaaaaaa

@annastasiaaaaaa (727)

• Philippines

2 Dec 16

@Helpingmana Thanks a lot! Wearing my heart on my sleeves I guess. :D

Judy Evans

@JudyEv (340286)

• Rockingham, Australia

3 Dec 16

Nothing stays the same for long does it? But at least your sister is now going to a great college.

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Mansi Awasthi

@Helpingmana (208)

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3 Dec 16

Ya that is true.

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clrumfelt

@clrumfelt (5490)

• United States

3 Dec 16

I'm sorry you are missing your little sister so much. Went through that when my kids grew up and left home. You don't realize how much you will miss someone until they move away. Trying to keep busy is the best way to cope and trying to make things special for them when they get to come for a visit.

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Mansi Awasthi

@Helpingmana (208)

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3 Dec 16

That is right mam. Thank u soo much for your help

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Felicia Kane

@DesirousDreamer (34776)

• Peoria, Arizona

2 Dec 16

You are going through what a lot of other people have to go through. It will be okay, no you cannot fast forward time, but you think about all the good times you will share when she comes back. Enjoy your time, keep talking to people, talk to us and time will fly by and you won't feel lonely knowing that we and other people are here for you!

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Mansi Awasthi

@Helpingmana (208)

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2 Dec 16

Thank you soo much...

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The Sunshine!!

@shaynas (5487)

• India

2 Dec 16

Hope you get over it soon, as you know she has gone for her good :). If you miss her so much, she must be missing you a lot too. You have to be strong :)

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yuanxing

@inter4 (319)

• Nanjing, China

2 Dec 16

After reading your words ,I can feel that you love and miss your sister very much. And I think you must be a good sister and get along with your baby sister very well.

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Mansi Awasthi

@Helpingmana (208)

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2 Dec 16

@inter4 that is soo true. She is my best friend.

Hope

@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

2 Dec 16

I hope your loneliness doesn't lat too long. Try writing some poems or stories about it.

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Manisha

@ms1864 (6885)

• Bangalore, India

3 Dec 16

Maybe you could use this time to indulge in something that interests you? Keep you mind occupied in other things?

Mansi Awasthi

@Helpingmana (208)

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3 Dec 16

I am thinking to do the same. Maybe I will start cooking now

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yuanxing

@inter4 (319)

• Nanjing, China

2 Dec 16

I just have the similar fellings like you,I am now studying at a unniversity far away from my hometown .When I get on my bed and ready to sleep at night, I often miss my parents and younger brother.

Mansi Awasthi

@Helpingmana (208)

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2 Dec 16

So where are you from.... If you dont mind me asking

yuanxing

@inter4 (319)

• Nanjing, China

3 Dec 16

@Helpingmana China

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@Magicweaver1 (343)

• New Delhi, India

2 Dec 16

Well you now have an opportunity to find yourself, being all alone in your " lovely " feeling :) I am sure you will miss your sister but believe that it will make your bond even more stronger.... Your post above is good enough to prove that you really love her and miss her....I am sure she is already aware of this.... But now that you are on your own, find something or someone who interests you.... enjoy this phase as well, who knows it could give you amazing memories for life.....God has his ways :) Keep shining and sharing.... Happiness Always :)