Whats Best Way to show a lady you love her? / myLot

Thailand

December 8, 2016 2:06pm CST

Hi Mylot you crazy Cats. I would like some Ideas on how to show my wife who is in England how much I love her. I have no money to buy her anything but would really like to know what is the nicest thing someone has done to show you they love you? We talk everyday on Skype or WhatsApp but saying I love you don't really pack the punch I want it to, Any Ideas?

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dragon54u

@dragon54u (31634)

• United States

8 Dec 16

What do you love about her? Start writing down each thing you love about her on a small piece of paper. If you run out of things, start writing short snippits of memories like a time you went for a walk and she made you feel special or she did something to remind you of why you love her. Then you can make them into a video presentation or put them all in a box and let her select one every day. She will adore you I did that for my dad years ago for Father's Day. He was 85 at the time and said it was the best gift he had ever received. Every day he could reach in the box, read one of my special memories of him, then put it in the second box I included. When the first box ran out after 12 months he could start over with the second box full or love. I hope this helps or at least gives you some ideas. We want to know why we are loved, that we are treasured for more than our looks, money, or other things. We want to know, for instance, that you love our cooking because it's us that does it, not that you love our cooking because you don't like to cook. That you love us in the morning when we look our worse because even then we are the most beautiful woman in the world. Get it? And it had better be sincere!

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Jonathan Nash

@JonathanNash (121)

• Thailand

9 Dec 16

Thanks Dragon thats a great idea

Judy Evans

@JudyEv (342110)

• Rockingham, Australia

4 Jan 17

What a great idea this is! I can just imagine how much it meant to your father.

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Jules

@Julie555 (4155)

• Russian Federation

9 Dec 16

Awesome way to describe your feelings

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Pat Z Anthony

@PatZAnthony (14749)

• Charlotte, North Carolina

8 Dec 16

It seems @dragon54u has the best idea.

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PLETHOS

@Plethos (13581)

• United States

8 Dec 16

if being married to each other doesnt say the ultimate "i love you", then i have no ideas.

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PLETHOS

@Plethos (13581)

• United States

8 Dec 16

@Stessia - i always thought that the best show of love is devoting yourself in marriage to the other person. its romantic, loving and committed. and if that doesnt make one feel loved, then its always going to be one frustration after another.

Stessia Chids

@Stessia (192)

• Abuja, Nigeria

8 Dec 16

@plethos, that's where you men get it wrong with us women. Women are delicate creatures. We feel loved only when you make us feel loved. Being married to a woman doesn't always imply you love her. You need to tell her both in your words and actions that you love her and bet me, She'll reciprocate with a greater love. You don't always need money to make a woman feel loved. If you don't have money and she stills loves you, then don't blame money when she falls out of love with you, blame yourself. ... @jonathan Nash, proving your love to a long distance partner is kinda simple but hard... Just be scincere, loving, and understanding... I concur with @dragon54u, she has said it all.

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Stessia Chids

@Stessia (192)

• Abuja, Nigeria

8 Dec 16

@Plethos you are right now... You have to be loving, caring, romantic, committed and devoted to your partner to keep the wheel of your marriage running.. It doesn't have to be one sided or the marriage is doomed to crash.

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