~Starting Trouble And I Haven't Even Said Anything!~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
Valdosta, Georgia
December 9, 2016 12:20pm CST
Before I start...yes this is an Aunt Mary rant so don't read it if you don't want to...
Now, my husband is almost never home. He works constantly-especially this month for obvious reasons, we have a LOT of expenses! I don't tell him about 98% of what goes on here while he's at work. He has enough stress trying to make money for our family-I don't need to add to that. So I keep my mouth shut.
He is home and awake for about an hour each night after work, if that. In that amount of time he told me last night he has had ENOUGH with her. He said if she doesn't save enough by the end of this month we will give her the rest and send her on her way to Louisiana.
She is making things up about all of us, she's still mean to our kids, still complains, not nice to the dogs, butts in every conversation we have, she's racist and we do NOT want that rubbing off on our kids, she thinks she knows everything about everything in the world, etc...
So...not to rush the month away since it's an amazing one but bye bye December, I'm ready for January!! 
The picture is of my children and I, 4 years ago. =)
The picture is of my children and I, 4 years ago. =)35 people like this
37 responses
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 16
@LadyDuck I know, that's the plan.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 16
@PatZAnthony There's no excuse for being ungrateful, mean to children, mean to dogs, racist, and rude in someone else's home no matter what your age or reason. No she hasn't been diagnosed with dementia.
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
9 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies Sad to think, any of us could be her in our older years. Has she been diagnose with dementia of any sort?
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
9 Dec 16
Good to hear he realized it and I bet he can't imagine what you have to deal with =) If he can't handle her as is! She's one rude lady!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 16
@infatuatedbby She's one hard lady to deal with! And now he is getting tired of it all too.
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
10 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies it can be hard to deal with people like that. Thankfully you won't have to deal with her much longer.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 16
@dodo19 Yeah, it's really hard. I try so hard with her but she is so hateful all the time.
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@celticeagle (167024)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Dec 16
You have the cutest kids. No, you sure don't need someone who is racist and hateful around. So January will be a new start for all. Sounds good.
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@celticeagle (167024)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies .....You have a handsome family there. I'm glad she will be out of the picture soon. You folks did what you could.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 16
@celticeagle Aw thank you so much! =) I love this picture, my kids were so little too. They grow so fast.
Nope I don't want that kind of influence on my children.
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@moffittjc (121590)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Dec 16
Do you think it will be easy to get rid of her? I mean, can you just give her a swift kick in the rear end and boot her out of your house? lol
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 16
@moffittjc She wants to leave as much as we want her to. She can't stand being around children-we have 4. Lol.
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@moffittjc (121590)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Dec 16
@stbrians Definitely! It's always easier said than done! There will be a lot of personal feelings hurt when it comes time to ask her to leave!
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@moffittjc (121590)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies Oh, poor woman! Being stuck around all those cute little kids! It must be so horribly difficult for her. So, what's stopping her from being on her way?
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
9 Dec 16
Some people are like that,, they think and act like they know everything, but they know nothing at all.... Hope you guys can solve the things smoothly. Blessings
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 16
@amandajay Yeah she is one of them, it's hard to live with her and hear it every day. Me too, thanks. =)
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
9 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies everything will be ok... Btw its a nice picture
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@Tina30219 (81931)
• Onaway, Michigan
9 Dec 16
I am so sorry she is doing this to you guys. I am glad though your husband wants her gone as bad as you do you definitely don't need her around your kids.Nice picture.
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@Tina30219 (81931)
• Onaway, Michigan
10 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies I bet it hasn't it will all be over with soon. It will all be back to normal soon once she is gone.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 16
@Tina30219 Thank you, it hasn't been easy at all. I am glad for that too-we have all had enough. Thanks! =)
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
10 Dec 16
Cute children. I wish you a peaceful and merry Christmas too
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
9 Dec 16
It seems she is not well. Is there nothing that can be done about her situation?
Perhaps telling the children when something wrong is said that you and their father do not feel that way?
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 16
@PatZAnthony She has some medical problems but none that would excuse her behavior-nothing mentally.
We do tell them that but she is constantly mean to our children as well as us. She is never grateful and she constantly complains about everything.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 16
@stbrians She goes to a doctor so if that were the case she would have been told that.
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
10 Dec 16
I would tossed her out on her a$$ long ago. You guys don't need that, how awful of her.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 16
@Abbygreenhill Yeah we have been more than patient with her I think. She's the hardest person I have ever lived with.
@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
9 Dec 16
That poor old woman is her own worst enemy, but she's got to go. Does she have people in Louisiana?
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 16
@JamesHxstatic I don't know about poor old woman but...
Her daughter lives in Louisiana.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
12 Dec 16
@JamesHxstatic Oh okay. Lol. Yes in that way your absolutely right!
@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
11 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies I mean poor in the sense that she is so mean spirited. My own mother was a lot like that really.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 16
@DianneN Yeah it is, she could have had an actual relationship with our children but she chose not to. It's really sad. I cannot wait until we have peace in our family once again.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 16
@DianneN That is the truth!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
10 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies January will be here before you know it! There is nothing better than peace and a nice family routine.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 16
@miniam Yeah, she is one of those people who will never be grateful for anything sadly. She makes $600 a month. After she pays her cell phone and storage unit she's saving the rest of it for the trip.
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@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
10 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies
Not much,it might take her a while to save
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
9 Dec 16
I am glad that he is going to help her to leave. That is very good of him to do that. I agree it is time for her to move. She is clearly not happy there either so she needs to be gone. Your family needs to be a family again without all the added stress. It affects everyone of you.
I have zero tolerance for racism of any sort so I could not handle her being that way. Time for her to go to Louisiana so that you can have your time alone as a family again!! You all have been more then patient enough! 
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 16
@Happy2beme Yeah I am too. We need the peace back in our home. Everyone is having a hard time now-even her as you said. She was unhappy since the first day she got here for some reason...
I cannot stand racism either and I darn sure cannot stand it around my children!
Yeah, enough is more than enough now.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
9 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies yes for sure. At least now there is an end in sight.
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@GardenGerty (160677)
• United States
10 Dec 16
So, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. People who know you will not believe her lies and if they do they should invite her to their house for a few weeks.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 16
@GardenGerty I truly am at the point now where people can believe whatever they want to. I couldn't possibly make the stuff up that comes out of her mouth-my mind doesn't think the way she does at all.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
9 Dec 16
I'm new to you and your situation but I know how stressful it can be to live with another person, especially if that person is a guest in your home and you are married. You are smart to help her move and I'm sure you'll all be happier. I cannot abide racist people, they are like toxins to children especially.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 16
@dragon54u Yeah we have lived with others before but this is by far the hardest one so far I think. She has not been nice to our kids or dogs-the two things that will get on my nerves the easiest.
Racism is absolutely not okay with me and we hear racist things come out of her mouth quite often...in front of our children!
@Hate2Iron (15727)
• Canada
9 Dec 16
I hope the rest of the month flies by!! I would hold a mini Christmas this month and then an awesome one when things cool down! :)
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 16
@Hate2Iron I think that is a really good idea! I'm worried that Christmas will be a disaster with her here sadly...
@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Dec 16
I would be feeling the same way if I were in your shoes, "the end of the month can't come soon enough"!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 16
@LeaPea2417 Yeah it is definitely time for just our family again.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
10 Dec 16
Bless your heart!! Maybe she"ll be gone soon. That's a sweet photo.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 16
@1creekgirl Yeah either way she will be gone soon, we can't handle much more. Thank you! =)
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 16
@shaynas She is full of negativity but it won't linger once she's gone since we have faith in the Lord.
She will be going to Louisiana next month.
