I get a lot of emails from myLot friends...

I'm a little confused by your post. Are you saying that your friends have disappeared from you friends list or their posts are not there when you try to find them. The only problem I have had with that is that I am not listed in two or three of my friends' lists, although they are in mine; I am not sure why that is. The other thing is that the friend's posts keep changing pages depending on how active that particular discussion is. I wish they would leave them in their profile in the order of the last one posted is the first one listed. I am finding that a bit frustrating.

same here specially when I was on todays top of the user list

Since the new myLot begin, many emails have come to my Inbox too. In a week I've got 1000 mails from myLot..Wow.. I don't know what must I do too. I just looked for some good discussions and responded it. But sometimes no reply.. It's OK.