LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE
By Gigi
@Millionairemindset (73)
December 9, 2016 11:48pm CST
So today I decided to go grocery shopping in a nearing town. To my surprise I hear my friend's husband laughing and carrying a conversation about what they would have for dinner. So I decided to approach them hoping to greet my friend and find out how she was doing. As I approached their isle, I realized that he was with another women and a newborn child. The worst part was when he saw me, his face cracked open and his world shifted while he dropped the peanut butter and jelly jar that broke on the floor. I said hello to him, introduced myself to her and told him I would call him and his wife later. Now I'm stuck in a situation where someone must tell my friend the truth. Is loyalty more important then preventing a heartbreak? See you at the Top!
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
10 Dec 16
Ouch! =(
What did the lady react when you told him you would cal him and his wife later? Does she know he has a wife?
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@Millionairemindset (73)
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10 Dec 16
@infatuatedbby, she just looked at the both of us, I'm not sure if she know if he is married but the look on his face and the peanut butter jar told a story. But now I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place I'm not sure of what I should do. Any ideas?
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
10 Dec 16
@Millionairemindset To be honest, it's a tough spot you're in right now. Are you very close to this friend?
Depending on how close your friendship is ~ I would ask how is your her relationship going with her husband? Then , continue to explain how you saw him at the store with another woman and newborn child. But without making any assumption & see if she has a hint?
Do you know if she and her husband have any problems? Does she post on social media about their relationship?
@Tina30219 (81929)
• Onaway, Michigan
10 Dec 16
That is a tough situation. Who have you known longer the wife or the husband? I would want to tell the wife she has a right to know.
@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
10 Dec 16
I think you should first talk to the man and find out the real truth
@Millionairemindset (73)
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10 Dec 16
How would I know the real truth, I mean if he lied to his wife what would motivate him to tell me the truth. Also if that women was his sister, family or friend why go speechless become flushed faced and drop the peanut butter. BTW I have never seen this lady before and I know their family very well. Lastly, I wouldn't want my friend to ever find out I knew and never said anything, that would break her heart and mines. I could't imagine what I would do if my friend knew and didn't tell me. Wouldn't you want to know?
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
10 Dec 16
@Millionairemindset that is why I'm saying talk to her husband and find out the full story
@Millionairemindset (73)
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15 Dec 16
@amitkokiladitya, I will I'm just thinking about should I approach the situation. Thank you for your insight.
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
10 Dec 16
Tough situation for you.as well. But I would suggest Loyalty is more important. but reveal things in a manner that a person is not shattered instantly.
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
10 Dec 16
you can share only first part of news, rest of the things will be revealed automatically
@Millionairemindset (73)
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10 Dec 16
@spaceseed, but how can a person tell someone devastating news and them not shatter? This type of news is heartbreaking. It's like loosing an immediate family member and worst to find out that there is a possible child involved. I mean a person could forgive an adultery but a child just doesn't go away. I'm lost right now I don't know what to do.
@Magicweaver1 (343)
• New Delhi, India
10 Dec 16
Loyalty is the most important thing dear....You can explain her the situation and then break the news which would not be possible incase she came to know herself.... You could help her.....
Keep shining and sharing.... Happiness Always..... ::))
