should we tell our partener abt our first love

well yes, i am a believer of being completely honestly to my partner

We can't give guarantee for our honesty. If we can believe the partner that she/he loves us very much then we can tell. It totally depends on their nature.

yeah i think so, sometimes we really need to share something from our past so that you could really try to get to know each other very much.

thats not a good idea man

You probably should tell him about your first lover. And if he relly cares about you than he will not say anything att all.

Your partner doesn't care, even if they do want to know about your personal life. In the beginning it all about selfishness then later on, feelings develop.

for what reason??? your first love was your past and this new person is your future. and ask your self would it make your relationship stronger or will it come between what could have bloosemed into something wonderful because the other person couldnt handle what you have told them and think they have to live up the expectations of your first love. there is no need to tell them anything. the relationship will be strong if you are faithful to each other and honest!!!! but your past love has nothing to do with your futher love.

its cool to do however the timing most be right to aviod issues arising from it.

i think we should,if he didnt ecxept thats his problem&think it should not be any secret between partner,but you know wht? it depends of the way you tell him that,watch your voice tone:-)

if you do not tell him now and he comes to know about your first love after marriage,have you thought of the consequences?

if u know the person somewat..he should understand u..so then tellin it is no prob...but then some ppl justcant accept such things ..in such cases just forget abt the topic...

That depends whether or not one has ever gotten over your first love. In my case I still love her as strongly as ever and do not want my current partner to feel that she's second best and so I dont talk about it.

no I feel that ones past should be left in the past and put behind you

yes i think if necessary then you should tell your parents about your first love. i think one day they wiil undesrstand dyour feelings . truth makes life strong and beautiful .

Why not? what is the harm in telling the truth? It is always better when things r cleared between two concerned people.If he cant accept it thats his problem he has to learn to accept facts & honor ur openness.

ya..if u think she/he can bear tht

yes u should, cause trust is the foundation of your relationship!.. if you lie once, you will be get another liying..

yaa sure.. it won b succesful sory if u wouldnt...

I havent I think it would just cause problems and why should that matter , that was the past this is the future.I havent asked him about his either..

it goes this way that,the longer u wait,the longer u suffer and in such a case if u spend a lot of time just thinking about it,(it may be in years)and when u say it u get a negative response, then waht u gonna do?