"i want you in my life" she said. "but as a friend" she said.

By noel
Vishakhapatnam, India
December 21, 2016 2:12pm CST
every girl i meet likes my character. everyone even compliments me about it. i never get it, why cant i get a girlfriend? its Christmas already! i come oh so close to having a relationship with her and she suddenly bombs me into the friendzone. i think she feels insecure in keeping a boyfriend. now all i have is many friends and no girlfriends. what could possibly be wrong?
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Mary Ann
@therealmaryyy (3162)
• Philippines
21 Dec 16
i want a girlfriend too! hahaha! well, i just got out from a sorta relationship but it was a bit complicated and it wasn't a typical or regular relationship. so i'm not ready to be involved with someone else. i try not to overthink and pressure myself to be with and to have a relationship with someone. less expectations, less disappointments. did you even tell her about how you feel before she 'friendzoned' you?
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Mary Ann
@therealmaryyy (3162)
• Philippines
22 Dec 16
@noellban sometimes it's much better to have a conversation with the person for clarity.. like if you think that you are 'exclusively' going out or dating with the person.. like what happened to you; you wanted to have a relationship with her but you didn't ask her if she wanted too.
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noel
@noellban (30)
• Vishakhapatnam, India
22 Dec 16
@therealmaryyy I DID! SHE REPLIED! THE HEADING SPELLS IT OUT!
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noel
@noellban (30)
• Vishakhapatnam, India
22 Dec 16
nope. i did not say a word. if its not okay with her then it might never work out.
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Megha Gupta
@meghagpta3003 (38)
• India
22 Dec 16
Hey! There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Either she is a person who likes you but as a friend, or insecurities loom around. Since you know the people you are talking about, you're in a better position to decide which of the 2 is true. And I believe there's nothing wrong in staying single and let the relationship thing come to you naturally instead of forcing yourself into it.
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noel
@noellban (30)
• Vishakhapatnam, India
22 Dec 16
thanks for your opinion ma'am
esther
@estheryolo (2)
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22 Dec 16
keep it shut
LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (51938)
• Philippines
21 Dec 16
really? is having a gf really that important now a days? that's one investment I wouldn't dive into. in the end they always choose the wrong kind of guys.
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noel
@noellban (30)
• Vishakhapatnam, India
22 Dec 16
it is kinda important. everyone has one. all my homies have one. and here i am all single. i do agree with you saying that they mostly choose the wrong kinda guys.
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DW Davis
@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
21 Dec 16
Someday the chemistry will be right and you'll meet the girl who is right for you. Until then, enjoy the friendships of those who respect you and think well of you.
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noel
@noellban (30)
• Vishakhapatnam, India
22 Dec 16
thank you for your advice sir.
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MD wafa nafis
@wafa1234 (52)
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22 Dec 16
I think so girlfriend always think negative
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noel
@noellban (30)
• Vishakhapatnam, India
22 Dec 16
yeah
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