Relationships are so hard to keep??
@vindhya93 (98)
December 28, 2016 2:03am CST
This is an absolute and perfect truth. I believe that relationship is a very hard one. It is a twisted one we don't the extremes of it. Everytime we go through a fight or an argument we rethink of deservance for each other.
At the end ,we find it very difficult to live with our partner knowing their flaws and only a few people figure it out which binds a relationship together . That binder has been mystery .
I think that's love,the magical one . But that's not everything there's something else which I found it and actually discovered from observing the eternal relationships . That's the TRUST and Commitment you keep for each other makes everything possible.
Yet again , we cannot win these two that easily . It takes time but it worth to give something we cannot get back , our tine .
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
28 Dec 16
Every relationship needs a lot if time and dedication.. This is a universal fact
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@lyanhnan (151)
• Thrissur, India
28 Dec 16
The best way is to develop trust in yourself. Be committed to yourself. You are your only true friend. Don't ignore yourself. That's the key.
The other is only a mirror to what you are seeking in you.
This is the way I feel and so I share.
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@hangover123456 (134)
• New Delhi, India
28 Dec 16
@vindhya93.....totally agree with you...its very hard to keep relationships and it takes lot of efforts from both the sides.
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@hangover123456 (134)
• New Delhi, India
29 Dec 16
@magallon Totally agree with you Christy
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@awesomeme (117)
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28 Dec 16
I guess you mature with your relationship. You know your partner in a more profound way, you learn to forgive, you overlook mistakes, you give up in arguments to let the other person win just as we evolve from children to adults. But, expressing your dissent, showing your anger at times is also healthy for a relationship I believe. There is no one rulebook for a good relationship. People are different and situations are different in every case. So, eventually you have to find out what you can do for your relation to work. Well, I have written a long comment as if I am a love guru, which I don't think I am. Haha :-)
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@jstory07 (139996)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Jan 17
You need to find someone that matches your personality. Someone that has the same interest that you have.
@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
29 Dec 16
Yes. Trust and Commitment. Love is not enough without those. I'd like to add blessing and guidance from God above to make the relaruonship last.
@TheInvisibleMan (17597)
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28 Dec 16
I think all depends on the will of the two people to be together.
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@Dyvette16 (4301)
• United States
21 Nov 17
The two in the relationship have to really be in love and want to be able to work everything out without the fighting
