~Aunt Mary Left Tonight~

@DWDavis Yeah I did try really hard with her but it felt impossible some days not to avoid her any way I could. I am glad we can have our home be our home again. It was getting to be too much to handle with her here. Thank you for understanding. =)

@DWDavis , So agreeing with you on this one. Other people's baggages are not for us to carry.

@Freelanzer Yeah I tried my best with her but I did lose patience once-which is what I feel bad for.

@Elusivebutterfly I do know your right about that. Our home was not peaceful with her here. Thank you for the hugs! =)

@LovingMyBabies .......Good! Moving on now..........!!

@celticeagle Thank you. I am really glad to have our home back the way it should be again. She did do some really mean things and she had no patience with our kids at all or our dogs which was frustrating. I'm grateful it is over now. =)

@magallon Yes I am grateful for that.

@LovingMyBabies

@Happy2beme Thank you. I know I probably sound crazy to most people since she did cause many problems here but I still feel kind of bad. I am very glad we have just our family here again.

@LovingMyBabies not crazy at. It never feels good when things don't end on good terms. You took her in hoping for the best.

@LovingMyBabies I don't think you sound crazy. I think you sound like someone who's spent a lot of time pleasing others and was possibly conditioned to behave in that specific way or you just haven't had a lot of experience in dealing with people who are crazy like Aunt Mary is. And trust me, as someone who grew up surrounded by it, she's fundamentally broken in a way that can't be fixed unless she wants to change. She probably never will because she doesn't see herself as the problem. Look how she played the victim when your daughter put the chair on her feet. Look how she called one (or was it more than one?) of the kids a cheater during games. That's crazy. Asking someone to leave because they're abusive and hurting your family isn't crazy. Feeling bad that you had to ask someone to leave because their manners were absolutely atrocious isn't crazy, either. It's human.

@LovingMyBabies Can I say that I am really glad for all of you. Now you can be yourseleves again. If it were me I would have danced an Irish Jig. Note I said if it had been me. Just take it easy and don´t feel so bad its truly not worth it. You have a right to be on your own and be how you want

@lovingangelsinstead21 Yeah I think it was a combination of things that made me feel that way. Now I am very grateful to have our home back the way it should be. =)

@LovingMyBabies That's good.

@Tina30219 Thank you. My husband was ready for her to leave as well-he's glad she is gone! Lol.

@LovingMyBabies Don't feel bad It could have ended on better terms if she had been nice to you all. But there is a time where house guests can't live permanently as your family and you need privacy too! Enjoy

@infatuatedbby Yeah it was starting to feel like she was going to be here forever. I am glad we have our peace again. =)

@infatuatedbby Yeah I know. I am just feeling bad for how I reacted to the situation. I know her rudeness came out the first day she arrived-which is weird since most guests take some time to show their true colors. Thank you, I'm looking forward to peace again.

@BelleStarr Lol. I am very grateful to have the peace restored in our home. =)

@BelleStarr Lol! Today was the first day of peace we have had in a long time and it was lovely. =)

@LovingMyBabies I would be doing my happy dance, come on you can do it!! lol

@marlina I know. I just feel bad for losing my patience.

@LovingMyBabies I think that you try too hard!

@LadyDuck I know, I just feel bad for losing my patience when I did. But I'm glad we have peace again!

@LadyDuck True and I know it was deserved but I wanted to be a better person than that.

@LovingMyBabies You have lost your patience because she was very, very rude with you and the kids.

@DianneN I was for the most part. I had one out burst that I shared on here but my limit was reached at that point. I am glad to have our home back. Thank you! =)

@fishtiger58 Yeah, things are much more peaceful now. =)

@LovingMyBabies I bet

@LovingMyBabies I know a lady online who is a bit like that, she can't seem to get along with her family,(in fairness, her son sounds like a jerk) and ended up living in her van at least for awhile. I am not sure what the latest is.

@snowy22315 Yeah it was never supposed to be a permanent thing. It was only supposed to be for a few weeks and it turned into 3 months!

@averygirl72 Yes we do. =)

@jstory07 Thank you. I just feel bad for losing my patience.

@LovingMyBabies It happens to everyone when you have had enough.

@Abbygreenhill I know, I just feel like I should have handled myself better.

@LovingMyBabies You were fine...move on!

@simone10 Yes it is really nice to have peace once again here. =)

@Morleyhunt Nope I would never do anything like that to anyone-I didn't need the stress and headaches. I just felt bad for losing my patience with her the one time about my daughter. Yes if there is ever a next time things will be talked about from the very first day.

@LovingMyBabies they need to be discussed before they are in your home. Once they are in it shifts the balance and the guilt also becomes more of a problem.