Diagnosis: Addicted to dating married men
@Kenyangirl (32)
Nairobi, Kenya
January 12, 2017 8:56am CST
There are some women who have created a new addiction altogether .They are addicted to dating married men .It is not that they cant find single men interested in them ,they just love the drama ,the adrenaline of taking a piece off a forbidden fruit. Nothing intrigues them faster than a man wearing a wedding band .She is excited by the idea of a clandestine romance ,it makes her feel like a Russian spy in America.
The mere thought that they can be caught at any moment is deeply thrilling to her.She just loves taking men that she knows belongs to other women .It gives her a false sense of worth and power.It sad but true .She literally hunts married men like a lion hunts an antelope.
There is the woman who unfortunately finds herself in love with a married man .Men apparently have selective amnesia ,they just happen to forget to tell a lady they are married . You suddenly find yourself in a love triangle when the wife shows up at your doorstep to beat you up and collect her man. The drama in your love life suddenly becomes soap opera worthy to all your neighbors. They keep swearing that they are over the guy but as soon as he shows up and profess his love to her and promise to divorce the wife,all is forgiven. Ask her and she will tell you that they are in love and the wife is the antagonist in this love story.I don't understand where people get this notion that being in love makes everything okay .It suddenly is reason enough to break a family and cause a lot of people pain .
There are also women who just seem to knowingly getting in a relationship with married men.It starts with John who is married to Jane,he breaks her heart because he wont leave his wife. It goes on to Harry and the cycle continues.They don't actually go after the married men and to them it isn't a game of catch me if you can.They actually fall in love with the married guy even hoping to be the second wife and once it is over ,you find them crying their eyes out ,lamenting and vowing never again.
The truth is most married men don't leave their wife for their mistress.Most men are just wasting your time as they pleasure themselves.Even if he leaves his wife for you ,he will still cheat on you .This year try to get your own man
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@vindhya93 (98)
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13 Jan 17
I find it strange.... I don't think a woman will go after a man who belongs to someone else....
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@Kenyangirl (32)
• Nairobi, Kenya
13 Jan 17
trust you me ,some women intentionally do
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@vindhya93 (98)
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16 Jan 17
@Kenyangirl may be that seems an adventure for such women..But strange it is..
@diosabella (4789)
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15 Jan 17
This is one weird addiction. I don't think that I would ever want it.
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