Are we judgemental?
@shaynas (5487)
India
January 14, 2017 10:38pm CST
We tend to define good and bad very rigidly. Is it fair?
Sometimes we should step in others shoes, for actually knowing what made them do something we feel is incorrect. As a fact, there can nothing we wrong or right, everything depends on the situation.
But we say very casually that this is wrong and that is right. Should we be more thoughtful before passing a judgement over anyone else's situation?
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@GardenGerty (160677)
• United States
15 Jan 17
I believe that there are some things that are wrong or right but for the most part we do need to have some understanding and allow some freedom of choices. We should not be so quick to judge over inconsequential things.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
15 Jan 17
We are basically judgmental. We judge ourselves, we judge others as per our own yardsticks. If one could practice empathy, his opinion will change. When we are able to put ourselves in other person's shoes we give unbiased opinion.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 17
@shaynas People love to do easier things 
. If they could pass judgement sitting at their own houses/places what is the need of stepping into shoes of others. I find there are less people who show empathy.
. If they could pass judgement sitting at their own houses/places what is the need of stepping into shoes of others. I find there are less people who show empathy.1 person likes this
@shaynas (5487)
• India
17 Jan 17
@dpk262006 I agree, even at times i feel i pass my comments without thinking about their situation. Though i try not to.
@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
20 Jan 17
No one should be judgmental especially without knowing the actual situation. Those people that we judge may be facing a struggle we don't know about.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
20 Jan 17
Even a brief knowledge is not enough sometime, specially when we are judging some person. Every one has their own and unique way of reacting to some situation, we have no right to pass any judgement just because we think that was wrong or unacceptable.
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@Clairelouiser (683)
• United Kingdom
17 Jan 17
I think people should be far more careful when judging another person, we do not know the circumstances of their lives at all.
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@allknowing (136481)
• India
15 Jan 17
Judging for the sake of judging is ridiculous but if someone's actions upsets our apple cart then there is the tendency to judge and at that point all is fair in judgement (lol)
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@Kenyangirl (32)
• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Jan 17
i have been misjudged over and over again because i am skinny and short ,it really should stop .people are just so judgemental
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