Different Day From What I Usually Do

He isn't very active right now. He sits in his chair or lays in bed and watches t v most of the time. He wants to do things so bad and hopefully he will before long.

@rebelann Yes, he had an accident and was in Denver for a long time. He came home in June of 2016. He is trying to build his strength up so he can do more. I started helping take care of him the middle of November and he has improved a lot. We have to be real careful as the skin on his arms is very thin and it rips open very easily.

Did he get sick or something @velvet53 ?

@jaboUK Yes, the mind is important. It is great that you have been married that many years.

HaHa Have you been at that job long?

@velvet53 We've been married for nearly 52 years, but it's only in the last couple of years that he's really needed care. His mind is still sharp which is the main thing.

@velvet53 Glad to see you are back and I hope that things will all work in the right direction.

@Shellyann36 Thanks. It is going to get better cause I am changing some things in my life.

I've missed you too. I don't like it when things happen and my life has to change.

Yes, I do keep busy at times here. Right now he is sleeping and all my work for the day is done except for the meals. So here I am. I need to pull an afghan out and work on it too.

@velvet53

He does and doesn't. He just watches t v and reads. I have to help him to the bathroom, fix his meals, do his washing, move him from his bed to chair or vice versa. The little things that he can't do himself. He has a walker but someone has to be with him as he does lose his balance. They have a cleaning lady come in but I do keep the place up when I am here.

@velvet53 That's great he doesn't need a lot of care.

@just4him There are some days when I am kept busy like today but I am happy that I can be there for him.

I will figure out how to do it but right now I don't want to leave here. I am having too much fun.

@velvet53 Haha, that is all that matters!

@DesirousDreamer I finally picked up the afghan and started working on it and would stop and do more here. I will get it done.

Thanks. I will.

I wish I could use my phone also. It would definitely help.

It sure is and I can always work on the other things that I have going.

Yes it is and I needed it. My eyes are starting to hurt so I don't know how much longer I will be able to be here tonight.