say but with control
@amitkokiladitya (171927)
Agra, India
January 17, 2017 9:40pm CST
Human beings are blessed with a supreme power of expressing themselves.
This is common for all human beings but what draws a demarcation line is what and when they speak.
Control over speech is very important of you want to be heard. Speaking only for the sake of saying something will not let you anywhere.
Think before you speak and speak only what is justified and holds a stand.
And above all let your actions speak more than your words..
It is very easy to instruct others by using your mouth..If you have the real wit then use your hands to render support.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
18 Jan 17
@amitkokiladitya Unless of course if you are in a state of anger..
Almost always we do not think about what we are going to say if we are in an intense emotion.
We just want to burst out what we feel.
We don't think anymore about the consequences.
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
18 Jan 17
@magallon yes this is true..even I have great difficulty in controlling my anger.. I speak a lot
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
18 Jan 17
Yep..I did it today morning and hope it works lol
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@allknowing (137840)
• India
18 Jan 17
Wish we could render our hands here to support what we say here (lol)
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@allknowing (137840)
• India
18 Jan 17
@amitkokiladitya In the real world I am noted for talking with my hands. (lol)
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
18 Jan 17
We should always watch our words, before we speak. When I say something, I make sure that I should not be misunderstood and I am being heard by the person in front of me. I give equal opportunity to my listener to say his side of narrative. If I get a slightest hint that the person in front of me is showing disinterest in our conversation, I immediately quit.
There is saying - "Words are our slave, till we speak them, once we have spoken, we are slave of our words."
Therefore, we should always be careful when we speak something.
Do you ponder over before saying anything to your patient who has a serious kind of disease?
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
19 Jan 17
@amitkokiladitya Yes, sooner or later you will have to inform the patient if he has been suffering from serious disease so that s/he could get proper treatment.
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
18 Jan 17
With patients it is different.. I cannot hide the truth of their illness from them.
If it hs oral cancer I have to tell them.
It is my duty
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
19 Jan 17
@dpk262006 it is not later... It is at the moment itself and at times real hard.
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
19 Jan 17
I agree with you. Every time we should be careful in every word that we are going to say toward other people. Words already spoken cannot be taken back anymore. The other person might say sorry and others will forgive but the damage has already been done.
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
19 Jan 17
Yes the damage has already been done..correct
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
19 Jan 17
@amitkokiladitya Did something hurt you by words?
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
19 Jan 17
@annierose no..not really
But I was offended by someone in my house.. That person speaks without thinking and we all know that.
But sometimes it hurts
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@PurnaSharma (2562)
• Guwahati, India
19 Jan 17
The world didn't go through glitches.If all people could do good things.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
18 Jan 17
@amitkokiladitya yes very true. Most of the issues crop up only because we speak something we should not.
He is good. Yes, just slept. How is cold there?
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
19 Jan 17
@shaynas its cold outside..but comfortable inside the house..
What about at your place?
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
18 Jan 17
Yes.
And family life will be very soothing.
How is your little one..? Is he asleep?
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