Will You Confront Your Husband's Mistress?
By Morning Girl
@salonga (27775)
Philippines
January 18, 2017 3:51am CST
"The wife discovered the infidelity of her hubby, she rushed out to confront the mistress. The mistress was also in fighting mood, the wife slapped her, she retaliated, the wife pulled her hair, they fought in front of many people, till the husband and some friends came to pull them apart."
That was just a scene from TV drama series but very true to life. And I believe that hell hath no fury over a faithful wife cheated by husband.
Have you been cheated by your spouse and how did you react? I pray many if not all here, have faithful spouses.
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22 responses
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
18 Jan 17
I would never stoop down to the mistress' level. I would most likely confront the husband and tell him to pack his bags and leave.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50580)
• United States
18 Jan 17
If this were to happen to me I believe that my hurt and anger would be aimed at my husband.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Jan 17
hmm. if it is my case, i will confront the man, but i will not lay my hand on the woman. i am way more level-headed than her, and i won't stoop down to her level
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
26 Jan 17
@ridingbet Oh! Your husband is not worth keeping. I admire your toughness.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Jan 17
@salonga true. i had that experience before. i saw another lady holding the hand of my love, and when i asked why they were holding hands, my ex said the lady was just checking on his temperature. me? a nurse? 'niloloko nyo lang ako,ano?', i told them, until i knew later on that they were also together. i dropped him off like a hot potato, and i did not talk to them again.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
23 Jan 17
I haven't experienced being cheated on, if that happens to me, I will confront him alone and not worry about the other woman. I will let go of my husband and will be on my own.. There is no way that I will be dragged so low..
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
24 Jan 17
If your husband cheats you, it is his big loss and he certainly knew that.
@Letranknight2015 (52072)
• Philippines
28 Jan 17
I'm not in their situation but I do feel their pain the way my sister in law feels in pain because my stupid sibling went for the mistress instead of his wife. If only she had more money should could have walked away from him for good. I only wished divorced is legal in this country.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
29 Jan 17
Oh my God, indeed I understand why you call your sibling stupid.
@KnehKnah (3584)
• Philippines
19 Jan 17
My dearly beloved is a faithful husband. But I have lady friends whose husbands are not. I know their pain. In case mine cheats on me, will I confront his mistress? No.
I know this is easier said than done. But I'd been thinking about this & all the "what ifs".
I will maintain my respect for him.
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@luisadannointed (6328)
• Philippines
3 Mar 17
I never marry. Lol! I saw those things in real life. And shame to the mistress anyway they will fully pay what they did together with the husband. Anyway I don't mind them God will surely revenge for those who was mistreated and deceived.
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
20 Jan 17
No cheating here and I would have just walked out with a broken heart.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
18 Jan 17
I also would. It is one of the most painful things that could happen to a wife.
@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
29 Jan 17
It never happened to me so I don't know what I would do. Except maybe empty his bank account that has my name on it too and take a long vacation.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
29 Jan 17
We are married for 24 years now, and I know he had been so loyal though there were years that we're apart because of our jobs. I would not confront the mistress if I am in such a situation; it is my husband whom I will confront (in front of the mistress).
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
29 Jan 17
I'm happy to hear you have no infidelity problem in your marriage. Keep up.