~My Most Annoying Flaw~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
Valdosta, Georgia
January 26, 2017 10:13pm CST
We all have flaws, right? Some are worse than others. I have found my most annoying flaw. I am sure it annoys my husband the most since he has to live with me. Lol.
When something is bothering me or worrying me or upsetting me I talk about it. Not just one time. Not twice. Usually a few times until I feel better about the situation. I don't know why I do this-it's been something I have done for as long as I can remember actually. I think it helps me to process things by talking about them a few times out loud.
My husband often says baby I know, it will be okay. Whatever "it" is. I try really hard not to do that here-I don't want to annoy all of you. I almost did it today and then I realized and decided not to.
What is your most annoying flaw?
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
27 Jan 17
@Drosophila Is this a third opinion which I see before me? It may as well be a dagger!!!
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
27 Jan 17
You are not alone friend. I too have that behavior sometimes.
I keep on talking about things and it makes my children get annoyed.
They will tell me, "Mama you have told us about that already". "You've said it many times already." "Yeah we knew about that too."
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@Linda1234 (4712)
• Houston, Texas
27 Jan 17
I agree with you . Many Mama have the same flaw..
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@magallon Well I'm glad I am not the only one. Lol. I work on not doing it but I end up doing it anyway.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
27 Jan 17
@LovingMyBabies I sometimes forgot that I have told them about it already.
Now, i a think first if I will tell them or not.
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@GardenGerty (160626)
• United States
27 Jan 17
I think a critical view point would be my worst. Writing about what is bothering you does help. Maybe a journal. It was so cool. I wrote a journal part of the time while my first husband was sick and afterwards. I loved looking back to see where God was holding me up. I think I should do that again.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@GardenGerty Yeah I do have a journal that I write in, it's a prayer journal. And of course I write here and it's cool to look back on older posts here too.
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@celticeagle (166761)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jan 17
I think being stubborn might be my most annoying flaw. I won't back down. Really made my ex upset with me more times than I can count. We all have them.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@celticeagle Yup we all have our flaws.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@LadyDuck Yeah that's not good for your own sanity.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@sugartoes That's why I love Mylot so much. I vent about things here because y'all DO care about what I have to say. =)
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@Judyev Yeah I used to be real quiet and keep everything to myself as a child. I ended up wanting to kill myself and attempted it.
I don't keep things inside anymore.
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@JudyEv (339548)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jan 17
@LovingMyBabies I'm glad you talk things out now. Much healthier.
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@snowy22315 (180452)
• United States
27 Jan 17
I talk about things that bother me as well many times. I wouldn't call it a flaw, that is just how I am.
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@snowy22315 (180452)
• United States
27 Jan 17
@LovingMyBabies You are just processing..that is how some of us do things.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@snowy22315 Yeah that's how I am too. Maybe not a flaw but something that annoys others. Lol
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@Vjvals Yeah, I don't like secretive people either.
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@Hate2Iron (15727)
• Canada
27 Jan 17
Are you saying that I actually have a flaw??? Okay, just kidding. I have a doosey! I worry needlessly and it affects my mood. I have a doctors appointment on Monday and I'm going to be a miserable camper until it's over. Stupid yes I know!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jan 17
@Hate2iron I also worry way more than necessary-usually about finances or the doctors.
I have an appointment on Wednesday and I'm worried sick about it. =(
It's not stupid at all, at least not to me since I do the same thing.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@Juliaacv Yeah I can't help but to talk about it over and over. It gets annoying to those around me, I know.
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@Juliaacv (51098)
• Canada
27 Jan 17
@LovingMyBabies Don't you worry, we'll all share your concerns and worries here. 
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@just4him Yeah we all have them.
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@asfarasiknow (3340)
• Bournemouth, England
27 Jan 17
Flaw singular? I have many but wouldn't want to list them - I'd need counselling if I saw them all grouped together!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@asfarasiknow 
Thank you for the laugh, I needed that today. I'm sure you don't have that many.
Thank you for the laugh, I needed that today. I'm sure you don't have that many.2 people like this
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@asfarasiknow I appreciate it...especially when I haven't had the best day.
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@asfarasiknow (3340)
• Bournemouth, England
27 Jan 17
@LovingMyBabies Trying to make people laugh is part of my reason for being here.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
27 Jan 17
My father, when I did something wrong would make me tell him over and over again what I had done. Sometimes for up to an hour I would have to retell what I had done wrong. I'm sure there was a method to his madness but back then I hadn't a clue why. It's the only thing about my dad I detested and horror of horror I'm just like that. I remember my kids on many occasions saying mom I have told you 5 times.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@fishtiger58 I am sure that was not fun having to do that when you were young.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
31 Jan 17
@LovingMyBabies It wasn't I often thought to my self just spank me and lets get this over with, and that could have been what he had in mind, torture me lol. I loved my dad he was a good guy.
@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
27 Jan 17
I internalize things a lot which means the other person won't even know that I am upset or the reason behind it.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@Daljinder That's mostly bad for yourself because eventually you might explode.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
27 Jan 17
@LovingMyBabies That I do! ...and it isn't pretty! 
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@jstory07 Yeah it can also be annoying at times too. Lol
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@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
27 Jan 17
I have way to many to even start to talk about, but if you need to talk about it I will be glad to listen
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@jillybean1222 (6407)
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27 Jan 17
oh boy, i have too many flaws that I can't think of just one... :-) I'd say that lately, my flaw is more of a health issue, but i still am struggling to handle it... it's my anxiety attacks. i don't handle them well. and i feel like i take it out of my family.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@Plethos It's not good to do that either. We should talk about things that are bothering us.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jan 17
@amitkokiladitya That is a hard one to overcome.
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
27 Jan 17
@LovingMyBabies yes. I know
But I try attimes
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