Am I being unreasonable?
By shravya
@Slayqueen (918)
India
January 31, 2017 5:38am CST
Do you ever feel so irritated when your boyfriend's friends are around? I personally feel that. I know them very well but sometimes I want to spend some alone time with my man. But we can't do that because his friends keep medling in. It's not that I don't enjoy hanging out with them very much, I do but there are times when you wanna be together. Am I being unreasonable?
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
31 Jan 17
That is completely understandable and you have every right to feel the way that you do. There should be a balance so that you don't feel like you are being neglected. Sure he can have his friend time but he also needs to have times where the two of you can be alone together.
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
31 Jan 17
There isn't a nice place for us to hangout so he sometimes calls his friends so that we don't get bored. I don't know what to do.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
31 Jan 17
@Slayqueen Aside from talking to him and maybe trying to find things you can do together I am not sure what would change things.
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
31 Jan 17
@Happy2BeMe me either. Maybe it's better not to say something and keep this to myself.
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
31 Jan 17
He understands that too.. but sometimes he just can't say no to his friends..
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@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
31 Jan 17
It depends on the occurrence of times your boyfriend's friends are around? If they are always around, I think you should talk about it with your boyfriend. Some things one does when they were single should be limited or be lessened once they are in a relationship with someone.
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
31 Jan 17
I talked to him about this and he responded it positively but he says that it's no harm in having fun with friends which I completely understand but somedays I feel like "only being with him" and not talking to anybody else. I don't think guys get that..
