A Friendship with out Pollen Equal Disaster
By Sasha
@diosabella (4789)
February 5, 2017 1:51am CST
"You need to attract me so I will stick to you!" 
that was my friend told me.... He wasn't always such a busy bee. And I didn't know that friendship needs attraction to go on.
I'm not a flower. I don't need a butterflies and bees to have a social life. So when someone tells me that I need to attract them so they could be friends with me it would be like a total 
. I tried talking to him. He said it was his natural thing. And my natural thing cannot tolerate his. This is the guy who I haven't talk for a year. Came bursting in my very peaceful afternoon saying he will a better person. That was a week ago but now.... Maybe I should have just blocked him
that was my friend told me.... He wasn't always such a busy bee. And I didn't know that friendship needs attraction to go on.
I'm not a flower. I don't need a butterflies and bees to have a social life. So when someone tells me that I need to attract them so they could be friends with me it would be like a total . I tried talking to him. He said it was his natural thing. And my natural thing cannot tolerate his. This is the guy who I haven't talk for a year. Came bursting in my very peaceful afternoon saying he will a better person. That was a week ago but now.... Maybe I should have just blocked him7 people like this
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@9301367444 (7)
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5 Feb 17
I think you should talk to him.. Maybe he wants you to return in his life.
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@diosabella (4789)
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5 Feb 17
Because we've been close friends before I let him return. I accepted him. But I guess from the year that had pass he changed a lot. He's attitude needs a lot of trimming.
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@diosabella (4789)
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5 Feb 17
@9301367444 He told me another thing too so you got that right, I will treat him according to his attitude towards me. I already had a talk with him. I said that I can't tolerate the way he talks me that is not how friends talk with each other. He apologize. Let's see how he is the next few days..
@9301367444 (7)
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5 Feb 17
@diosabella ohk.. Now, its depends on his attitude on how u treat him..????
@JudyEv (339586)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 17
@diosabella People like this can never get the message that others don't want to be bothered with them. They think they are irresistible.
@diosabella (4789)
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5 Feb 17
@JudyEv How can he think that he's irresistible? I ignored him for a year. I never even bothered any holiday or birthday greeting. He's the one who approached me and told me he will be better. I guess he really have a big head. It became so inflated I'm not sure how far he will float.
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@diosabella (4789)
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5 Feb 17
That's what I've been thinking too. I can't believe he's still a you know what. He said sorry though but I just can't believe him anymore. So I just left him to his own devices and praying that he won't remember me for a long time. 
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
5 Feb 17
For both love and friendship it should be unconditional. If people expect something then it's waste of time to be with them. So good that you blocked him ..
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@diosabella (4789)
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5 Feb 17
I wish it will be better this time but it wasn't. I'll just go back ignoring him and hopefully he forgets about me again and just remember me after a year or so. 
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
5 Feb 17
@diosabella - who knows he may be missing you and your friendship but it's not shown outside..
@diosabella (4789)
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5 Feb 17
@smileyhema Maybe maybe not. What ever he's thinking I'm not interested anymore if he put out this attitude of his.
@diosabella (4789)
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6 Feb 17
Yup. That's why I just deleted his last message. Its up to him if he wants to keep in touch or whatever. I already told him what to expect of me. The ball is in his court now so to speak.
@ANAYAtair (128)
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6 Feb 17
i will laugh at his thought!!! friendship is an understanding between two persons... it is a bond of trust,love,respect and appreciation for each other... one does not need attraction to be a friend.....
@diosabella (4789)
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7 Feb 17
Same point as mine. I've been trying to explain this to him. I guess his definition of friendship is very different to what I have in mind.
@allknowing (136100)
• India
5 Feb 17
OMG If he has come back don't you think you have attracted him!!
@diosabella (4789)
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5 Feb 17
If he comes does, I will use his own words back at him.
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