The funeral

@ElicBxn (63595)
United States
February 5, 2017 8:32pm CST
I know, I haven't been on really any this last week. You can certainly understand why I might be depressed. A plot was found on Wednesday. A family who had recently lost a loved one, had decided to donate a spot for someone who couldn't afford a grave. I met the priest at the cemetery and paid for what was over and above the cost. I had just the day before paid my property taxes, and with this, it left me considerably poorer. The following day the funeral home delivered the coffin to the church. Between the time we met at the cemetery and the next morning, the temperature had dropped 40 degrees. However, since they hadn't embalmed Connie, this was a good thing. I stayed while they did the first part of the service, and then they were going to chant psalms all night. I left when they were going to start that. I got there the next morning before they started the rest of the service. A cousin and a couple of friends also came. After the service, we went to the cemetery. After the service there, the cousin and I went to eat lunch. I have to say, that unless your religion doesn't believe in embalming, don't keep the body out for a week, even refrigerated it isn't exactly what you expect...
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@snowy22315 (180870)
• United States
6 Feb 17
It sounds rough.
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@ElicBxn (63595)
• United States
6 Feb 17
it has been a very hard week...
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@paigea (36317)
• Canada
6 Feb 17
I am sorry for your loss. Take care.
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@ElicBxn (63595)
• United States
6 Feb 17
I am trying to do so. The roomie has been taking care of me too.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Feb 17
wow thar sounds so sad glad you got a b reak on the ccoiffin at least.
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• Preston, England
6 Feb 17
so sorry for your loss - so generous of the people who donated a plot that way
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@ElicBxn (63595)
• United States
6 Feb 17
I agree. I hadn't ever considered this kind of paying it forward, but I don't know if we could've buried her any other way.
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• United States
6 Feb 17
Connie has passed the Connie I know from myLot?
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@ElicBxn (63595)
• United States
6 Feb 17
she went by Maggiepie here, but she was also on FB
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• United States
7 Feb 17
@ElicBxn Yes I do remember her..so sorry El.
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6 Feb 17
I am sorry for ur loss
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
19 Feb 17
It is really nice that someone was able to donate a plot. Most we know want to be cremated or buried immediately. Not sure that is always better, but that is what some prefer.