Being Single

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Hi, Mylot! I am back on my usual ranting. If you don't wanna know what's going on in my head because of society, feel free to leave this page. If you still continue, don't say I didn't warn you. So the topic for today is "Being Single". Woo hoo! So, to start with my rant, I'll ask a question. "Why would people worry whether I've got a partner or not?" The romantic kind. Moms in baby brother's school should know better. Tsk, tsk... Yeah, I got writing on this because of them. For one, I am not looking. I'll tell you right here and right now, "I chose my kind of life." And I will continue on choosing what I think is right, logical, practical and reasonable--for me. I am single right now because I wanted it. I chose it and I will continue on choosing it. No one else is gonna do that for me but me. Call me proud but that's just life. If you're not convinced by that sense and logic because people can't seem to understand , then try this. I am single because I've got high standards that just screamed "Mr. Perfect". So, of course, I really wouldn't have anyone like that right now--because nobody is perfect! And I can't attract Mr. Perfect because I am far from perfect. (You know law of attraction?) I'm no hypocrite to even wish a Mr. Perfect in my life because he'll just end up Mr. Miserable in the long run. I am not ready for him. I can't do that to a poor soul, to suffer on my account--because of my selfishness. That person is better off with someone else. And if you're going to say, "Why don't you lower your standards then? When you know all of that? What if that weren't the case? What if he's happier with you?" I'll roll my eyes at you. It's not like I am in discontent. I am actually quite happy with my life. Single and alone with my thoughts. Sure my life and my thoughts needs some tweaks here and there but at least it's the kind of life that I've wanted for myself. I'm not bitter and I feel happy for couples this coming Valentine's Day. Besides, I'd bet I beat all couples in dates this month. I've got my family to be with me. And I enjoy being with them. I'm the type of person who can be content even if you put me behind bars and I'll still feel free. Probably freer that being free. So, what's the problem? To all who suffer because they're single, let me tell you, being single is alright. It is normal and you are normal. Nothing is wrong with you. People have just got different paths that they need to take at a certain time. The same with learning, people have got different starting lines. So, do not beat yourself up. Live your life and I live mine. I chose being alone. With myself and with my God as my eternal companion. I am content with that. So my question to those who question my decision to myself is, since I am content on my own, why can't you? My shout out to all #SingleLadies there. #Happiness #Contentment