On My Mind Tonight
By Kristy
@jalo770 (197)
February 8, 2017 11:42pm CST
Laying here in bed, thinking in my head, wanting to cry but my mind just won't let me. "I'm working late again tonight" .. that's the 3rd time this week. Could it be true? Surely it can't? We're married.. we love each other. We vowed 'till death do us part" .. does that count if one is dead inside.. dying from all the stress and worry that some other woman is getting the love and affection that I own? It's not fair.. comes in after hours.. doesn't even cuddle when he comes to bed. Is it me??
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
9 Feb 17
Can I ask how long have you been married?
I think I've been in your situation before so... I understand what you are going through at the moment. If you love him and he loves you then your marriage will work... Take care and try to be positive. We are here for you... 
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
10 Feb 17
@jalo770 Each situation will be different and I don't know what else to say apart from try to be strong.You are still young so do something with your life... When we depend too much on our other half it is very hard to let go... Hope your ending will be a happy one... Remember, we are here for you..
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
10 Feb 17
Oh that's sorry to hear. May be you should have a word with him and ask him in person.. speaking to him will be a better solution IMO..
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
9 Feb 17
Have you talked to him about it? Do you have any other reason to suspect he may be cheating?
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
9 Feb 17
@HAPPSINGH It is but there are usually plenty of other signs when your spouse is cheating.
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
9 Feb 17
@HAPPSINGH Hiding their phone, deleting messages, closing up the computer screen when you walk in the room, clearing the history on computer, credit card receipts, lack in intimacy, looking for arguments or avoiding you, a sudden interest in their personal appearance (losing weight, etc.), stops wearing their wedding band, catching them in lies, stories that just don't add up and the list goes on and on!
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
9 Feb 17
@HAPPSINGH You are welcome and I hope the same. It is a terrible thing for somebody to do to another person.
