please return the FAVOUR

February 27, 2017 4:47am CST
I always tried to be there for everyone.. but when my turn comes, no one's there. i mean except my best friend no one ever shows up! Its like all are busy and I need to struggle to find calmness, peace and freshness. its too hard to stand up for oneself, isn't it?
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• India
27 Feb 17
I understand what you are telling. Generally that is the case with everyone. I would suggest we should adopt the philosophy be there for all without accepting anything in return. Then we will find inner peace and calm. Hope this answers your question. We are our best friends and we are our worst enemies.
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
27 Feb 17
That is a great suggestion.
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28 Feb 17
@krishna kumar: we are humans and not saints with divine mindset. i do find peace but after saturation of thoughts i break down...
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• Bangalore, India
27 Feb 17
This is what maximum people think... You still have best friend to show up.. some people like me has no one.. So Swati just accept the fact and fight!
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 17
It is disappointing when we have all to others, buy it's the opposite for them. I learnt that the hard way. So now days, I don't expect anyone to help me. So when one does, I'm really touched and thankful. When you didn't expect anything, you'll be less disappointed.
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
27 Feb 17
We all usually learn it the hard way and then we start doubting our own philosophy.
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@Jackalyn (7558)
• Oxford, England
27 Feb 17
I know what you mean. People often forget the favours we did. I do have some good friends, but we can all feel deserted at times.
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
27 Feb 17
I can u derstand.I too have undergone the same pain.You may be selfless,but you can't expect others to be selfless for you.They generally prefer to look the other way when it comes to serving your interests.
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@Samia786m (522)
• India
28 Feb 17
Same here,I also stands for peopl but they dont.You will not belive that today i tell all these to my husband. Sometimes i feel there is only god for me.
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
27 Feb 17
Yep thats true somewhat but not completely. People pretend something and when the real time comes, they all become busy and lost in their own world.
@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
27 Feb 17
Yes, some time it is hard to stand up for yourself. I'm like you, always be there for others, and to make myself feel much better, I try not to expect anything from them. This is when you really find out who your best friend, or a good person, is.
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@sans224 (1806)
28 Feb 17
Dont expect the same from everyone. But do the right, you will get the reward when you need it the most. i am sure
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• Nagpur, India
27 Feb 17
This is mean world;you have to live with it.At least you have your best who will help you in needs.
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
27 Feb 17
Its getting mean and meaner.
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
27 Feb 17
@ayushman899 Except your parents
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• Nagpur, India
27 Feb 17
@avi256 yeah..! Don't expect much from anyone.You will be happy with that approach
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