Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage?
By Amanda
@amandajay (23264)
New Zealand
March 1, 2017 12:10pm CST
What do you think, What is the best way to choose your life partner, Love or a Proposal?
There are advantages and disadvantages in both sides. Because people are different and marriage is a congregate of two different persons.
If we learn to respect each others ideas, love or arrange will not be a problem.
Mine is a Love marriage, What's yours?
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11 responses
@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
1 Mar 17
MyLot is a global site. I'm afraid that many members don't have an opinion on the topic. I don't know of any European country where marriages are arranged. It's also not a custom in the USA, at least not among people whose ancestors have come from Europe.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
1 Mar 17
Oh I see... But in asia there are many arrange marriages. Since there are many Indians ( my neighbours) here, they will respond..lol
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
3 Mar 17
@amandajay yes saturday.. its still thursday night :)
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
3 Mar 17
Hehe i know that and tomorrow is your big day
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
3 Mar 17
@amandajay You could explain it here.
Someone said the difference between love marriage and arranged marriage is -
In love marriage you marry a known devil.
In an arranged marriage you marry an unknown devil. 
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
3 Mar 17
@dpk262006 hahaha even i was about to saybthe same..lol
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
3 Mar 17
Ill teach you.. Come for extra classes...lol
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
1 Mar 17
Love marriage for me. I haven't come across arranged marriage for a long time here. Parents no longer find partner for their kids. Back then that was how it used to be. In fact my parents were married based on arrangement made by their parents.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
3 Mar 17
Yeah these days every person find their life partner by their own.. Then parents have to agree
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@Samia786m (522)
• India
1 Mar 17
Arrange marriage are best.If our parents choose our life partner they will choosr best for us.If we go against them and marry a person whom our parents don't like.How can our parents live happy.And how can we live happy.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
1 Mar 17
Yes in that case you are right.. If something went wrong parents will involve and solve the problem. But in love marriages we have to face things alone, right?
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
3 Mar 17
@infatuatedbby mmm everything has two sides..lol
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
5 Mar 17
Love marriage most definitely.. there is no way I could marry a stranger.. I love my husband and we got to know one another before we got married.. I think that is the way it should be.. but that is just me.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
5 Mar 17
Yes you are right. We need to know the person.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
5 Mar 17
@amandajay yes we do.. I have a friend that was with her boyfriend for 2 weeks and got married and they are still together and have 4 kids.. and that was 13 years ago.. they must of really been ment for each other.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
3 Mar 17
If you say arrange marriage, your GF will kick you..lol
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
4 Mar 17
@TheInvisibleMan hahaha.. Im sure you are afraid of her.. Lol.. Poor you..
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
3 Mar 17
Yes you are right. If we respect each other, everything will be fine
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@ichchhe_mrityu (1144)
• Bangalore, India
1 Mar 17
Being single is the best.
It is said that arrange marriage is something like you are going on road and a snake bites you and love marriage is like you are dancing in front of the snake and it bites you... 
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