You can make Others Happy.

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@akalinus (43334)
United States
March 6, 2017 12:21pm CST
I was myLotting and half listening to the TV news. The announcer said, "Many people do not realize their ability to make others happy." That is really something to think about. What we do can influence people in a good or bad way. Maybe we have more ability than we think. I will try harder to make others happy. It won't take much, a smile, shared laughter, a pat on the back, letting them know they are loved. Can you make someone happy today? You have the ability.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
7 Mar 17
I shared a laugh with my husband yesterday during dinner, we had a good laugh and I am glad I made him happy.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
8 Mar 17
@akalinus I am sure you are right, you also remember those who make you angry or sad.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
8 Mar 17
@LadyDuck You might not remember them fondly, though.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
8 Mar 17
People will remember you for how you made them feel. Happy is good.
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• Preston, England
15 Mar 17
preparing a talk on comedy for next week so hopefully that counts
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• Preston, England
15 Mar 17
@akalinus very true - it is as they say the best medicine
@akalinus (43334)
• United States
15 Mar 17
@arthurchappell I like it. It relieves tension and gives you a good laugh.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
15 Mar 17
Funny is always good as long as it does not hurt anyone. Everyone likes a good laugh!
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• Pamplona, Spain
8 Mar 17
I try to even if I don´t really want to in that moment. I don´t feel like that all the time so I try to make people happy because I want to but if they don´t want to know then I don´t really mind either.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
10 Mar 17
Some people will not be happy no matter what you do. We can still be kind even though we know they won't appreciate it.
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• Pamplona, Spain
10 Mar 17
@akalinus Have first hand experience of that. I have stood on my head to make others happy and they will never be happy with anything unless they really want to be. So right what you say.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
13 Mar 17
@lovinangelsinstead21 Thanks, if someone is determined not to be happy no matter what, they will be unhappy their whole life. They won't reach out and embrace love shown by others. Maybe they don't recognize it.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
7 Mar 17
That's a good goal. Most people always just think about how to make themselves happy. It's time to think of others too and that will add up to our own happiness
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
8 Mar 17
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
8 Mar 17
I have found that making others happy is the best way to make myself happy.
@Juliaacv (51485)
• Canada
6 Mar 17
I know for a fact that this is true. If you go out and make it a point to make eye contact with those that you meet, even if you do not know them, and you give them a nice gentle smile, you will get that back, and on occasion I know that I also get a nice comment-which in turn makes my day!
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@Juliaacv (51485)
• Canada
6 Mar 17
@akalinus You're welcome!
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
6 Mar 17
It is fun to make someone's day. Thanks for the comment.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
15 Mar 17
I am a natural jester but when I am hurting, I can't be approached.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
20 Mar 17
@ridingbet I read a comment once that said "not forgiving is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die." I can't find who to attribute this to. It might be Malachy McCourt. There are a bunch of versions of this.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
15 Mar 17
Sorry. Everyone is different. I hope you cheer up quickly.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
19 Mar 17
@akalinus i guess it is in my personality. i am easy to please but hard to forgive especially when i am not the one at fault.
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
6 Mar 17
We all have the possibility to make someone happy. What we need to have is the determination to do it
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
6 Mar 17
It is easy once we realize we can influence others for the better. If you want to, you will think of a way.
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@vandana7 (100540)
• India
14 Mar 17
How? Good post...not sure I have the ability...but I would like to try...
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
14 Mar 17
Just take it one thing at a time, one day at a time. I know I mess up all the time.
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@Hate2Iron (15727)
• Canada
6 Mar 17
I think that I have done it once... with a phone call to my mom and then again this afternoon, when I sort out all of her doctor's appointments!! It's so sad :(
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
6 Mar 17
Your mom really appreciates knowing that you care. It is so important to her. I know because I'm a mom.
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@JudyEv (341786)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Mar 17
You're quite right saying it doesn't take much to make a person feel a little happier. It's a good habit to get into.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
8 Mar 17
Yes, you are right about that. Making it a habit is the best way.
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@rowena292 (242)
• Baguio, Philippines
7 Mar 17
Yes that's really true .. Let's your family feel the love . for me i always calling my mom in my phone and make jokes.
@akalinus (43334)
• United States
8 Mar 17
I know your mom loves you doing that. Family is everything. Love them while you still can.
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• Baguio, Philippines
10 Mar 17
@akalinus yes and I love her too. Yes we must love our parents.
@akalinus (43334)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@rowena292 Always call your mom when you can. You will make her so happy!