The death of a friendship
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
United States
March 9, 2017 11:56am CST
Some friendships are short-lived, while others live indefinitely.
Some are meant to be, others are not.
We must learn to tell the difference and let go at the right time.
The right time is now.
I thought we would get along just fine.
We helped you in your home search, we went above and beyond.
We welcomed you to our home.
Then you called me names on Facebook.
How do you consider that friendship?
Tell me, how?
Never mind, I’d rather not hear from you ever again.
You are dead to me.
Photo from Pixabay
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36 responses
@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
9 Mar 17
@AbbyGreenhill I am using FB less than in the past, some people are getting crazy.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
@LadyDuck Once I got rid of a few day it will be a better place.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
I did a big unfirend this morning! I don't need the aggravation
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@Marilynda1225 (82789)
• United States
9 Mar 17
It's sad to hear that someone you considered a friend turned on you this way
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
It started during the election and his point of view is obviously the only one and the rest of the world are words I can't use here.
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@Marilynda1225 (82789)
• United States
9 Mar 17
@AbbyGreenhill that is very sad if the friendship was ruined over politics
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
9 Mar 17
@AbbyGreenhill Oh! I don't like people like that. Who likes to talk to a wall anyways?
@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
9 Mar 17
I am sorry that happened to you. It reminds me of a couple my parents were real chummy with.. They had them to their home and vice versa. Then, there was a falling out. It really surprised me because they had been so close.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
I have known him online for 8 years - but he's quite different now than even a year ago. His true colors came out during the last 8 or 9 months.
@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
9 Mar 17
sorry to hear that you have neen treated in this way.. and you're right all relationships are meant for a certain amount of time.... and we need to learn when to let go and move on..
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
I have my husband and my Ruby - the three of us get along fine - Ruby is a pain but she is a dog after all LOL!
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
@sallypup Family I don't mind cutting fences, but I thought friends would be better/different.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
I don't want an apology from anyone and believe me I won't get one. thanks....live and learn.
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@sallypup (61155)
• Centralia, Washington
9 Mar 17
@AbbyGreenhill I've basically cut my fences from most of my family. Just got to do what you got to do.
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
It wasn't like we got together often so it's not going to mess up my life much.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
10 Mar 17
So many times anymore there are too many people out there that are like this. We had a lot of this type of behavior ourselves in the last 2 yrs. Many times they just do not see the real picture and in reality most of the time when they finally do, they have hurt so many people no one can Trust them anymore.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
10 Mar 17
Having differing opinions on topics is normal, but when you call someone unpatriotic and some words I can't say here( because I don't agree with him/them, is pushing my limit.
@suziecat7 (3350)
• Asheville, North Carolina
9 Mar 17
Sorry - I know how disappointing people can be.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
Yes, especially someone you met 8 years ago and have been online friend all that time. Then to finally meet in person and it all blows up.
@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
10 Mar 17
Sounds like a nasty break-up.
Move one. You are better off without 'friends' like that.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
10 Mar 17
You got that right, I don't need the aggravation at all
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
Yes, you're right and I gave the benefit of the doubt for way too long...as of today I'm 'free'.
@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
9 Mar 17
And that would be why I don't spend much time on Facebook.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
It isn't Facebook that caused the situation - it's people who say it's their way and the rest of us are all wrong. FB is just the medium used to let it all out.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
@Morleyhunt that would not happen with them.
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
9 Mar 17
@AbbyGreenhill I have many people who don't share my viewpoint. We just agree to differ.
@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
10 Mar 17
You just never truly know how some people are, they are only out for themselves, you are better off without them.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
10 Mar 17
There is so much more to this that I don't want to get into - I just thought they were different.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@fishtiger58 Plus when you get right down to it the only thing we have in common is TN....they have kids, they are much younger...
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
10 Mar 17
@AbbyGreenhill They sound like they are not worth your time or the stress involved.
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
10 Mar 17
Sometimes you just got to walk away, close that door and never look back. Been there a few times and my life is much better without them. Sorry it happened to you.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
10 Mar 17
Thanks, I really didn't see this coming which is why it was a shock. But, I'm too old to get 'abused' verbally by anyone.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
10 Mar 17
@AbbyGreenhill Nobody deserves that ever. You did the right thing by walking away.
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@Happy2BeMe I felt upset at first, but now I feel relieved.
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@TheRamblingMan (309)
• United Kingdom
9 Mar 17
Some people are only in our lives to leave a mark, to push or pull us in a certain direction, to test us and to tease us. Looking back, many years later you can see how each has been a part of what has forged you into the person you have/are to become.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
That is so true. I am sure in a few years I'll see it more clearly.
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@GardenGerty (160696)
• United States
10 Mar 17
It sounds as if the time is right to clear things away.
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
10 Mar 17
I hope that message was sent directly to the party involved. It would put things to an end.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
10 Mar 17
It is all said and done and they can go be bad friends with someone else.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
I called him out on in privately and he got worse. W/o going into the awful details, he was very rude.
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@Friendlypink (3805)
•
10 Mar 17
Awww this sad. Atleast you knonwhat kind of person that person really is.
How long you have been friends with that person?
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
10 Mar 17
We met online at a writing site in 08. It's just been two years ago that we met in person. We helped them find a home near our area but they only come on vacations - they won't move down here for a few more years.
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Mar 17
Kick them to the curb so to speak!
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@jewejewels353 (8)
•
10 Mar 17
Yes social media is bad and people tell so many romors to get your and friendship bad there are alot of haters on social media and they will do anything to try to bring u down they might see that u are doing really good and they are not so they will try to tear what friendship u have wit anyone away because they want to see u fail
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
10 Mar 17
When the actual 'friend' says it on FB for the world to read it is worse.
