Minors can still marry at 13 in New Hampshire.

@amadeo (111938)
United States
March 10, 2017 3:31pm CST
Good afternoon.We have sun and flurries.Weird weather Here in NH they voted down bill to raise minimum marriage age to 18 Girls 13 years can get married here. This is new to me.I never knew this.so young. I knew that 16 and 17 years old get married.But not this young. What is the legal age in your state to get marry?
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
10 Mar 17
13 years olds are way too young to get married, it is insane.
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
11 Mar 17
@amadeo I agree with you on this one: insane is the right word
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@marlina think that the people on the board is insane
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@marlinahttp://www.concordmonitor.com/bill-on-whether-minors-can-marry-8581515
It’s not often middle-schoolers get married in New Hampshire. But it’s still perfectly legal, after the Republican-led House killed a bill Thursday to raise the marriage age to 18.The rejection leaves intact a state law that lets girls get married as...
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• United States
10 Mar 17
That is extremely hard to swallow..... That is crazy!!!!
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
10 Mar 17
Turns out most states (if not all) @AbbyGreenhill will allow early marriage with parental consent.
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• United States
10 Mar 17
@PatZAnthony Sorry, but it's still crazy and any parents who allow a 13 year old to marry need serious help. TN 16 or younger you need a court order, otherwise legal age is 18. I guess we aren't as backwards as some other states.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@AbbyGreenhill very crazy.Not sure why they turned down the bill
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@much2say (56087)
• Los Angeles, California
10 Mar 17
13? No no no - that is way too young! My daughter is going to be 13 next year . . . I will not allow her to go to New Hampshire for years .
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@much2say (56087)
• Los Angeles, California
11 Mar 17
@amadeo In case she gets any ideas .
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@much2say to get marry?
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@much2say I see.Not even for a visit with the family
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@jstory07 (139996)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Mar 17
I do not know what the legal age is in Oregon. 13 is way to young for a young girl to get married. They do not know what love is at that age.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@jstory07 right.They do not know.
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@dwstory (1276)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Mar 17
@workathomefan A thirteen year old should be enjoying their childhood.. Being a child. Not getting married.
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• Prairieville, Louisiana
11 Mar 17
It is 17 in your state Judy Story.
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
10 Mar 17
New Hampshire is 13! Wow. Not even sure what it is in our state but in our little circle, finishing college and few other important things would be first. Poor females in NH.
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
11 Mar 17
@amadeo People don't get married b/c of pregnancy these days from what we see looking at the stats in most states.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@PatZAnthony that is important.I wonder cause some of them got pregnant?
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Mar 17
Nah. The law is probably more complicated that it seems. Parental consent. Laws about age of the "older" person, etc. I doubt NH is rife with 15- and 13-year-olds running around married, working jobs, and making babies.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
10 Mar 17
I don't know, but I thought it was 16 here with parental consent (in PA) but haven't looked up the laws. It must be an arranged marriage to make a decision so involved at that age. Is it because of a religions sect that does that?
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@OneOfMany I am not sure.I really never thought of this.Was very surprised to hear this.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@amadeo I'm not surprised by it because of the middle ages, but it's a little strange that it's still happening in the states.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@OneOfMany The law allowing it was passed in 1907. According to the article I read, only 784 such marriages have been approved in the 110 years since.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
10 Mar 17
In England the age is 18, although people can be married at 16 with their parents' consent. There are some ridiculous ages of consent in Europe, with the Vatican being the lowest at 12 years old.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
10 Mar 17
@MALUSE Yes, there are women in the Vatican. They comprise of wives of some workers and even of Swiss Guards, plus children born there from such people.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
10 Mar 17
@MALUSE Yes, it will only be applicable to the children of such people. Marriages must take place because there is a ruling that if a female resident marries someone from another country then they forfeit their right to residency.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@Asylum thank you for the information there
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Mar 17
hi aadeo I believe here in California 18 is the legal age to marry in South Dakotas you were considered a minor til age 21 bu could marry at 17 too young I think
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@Hatltey It is young.
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@marguicha (223802)
• Chile
10 Mar 17
Interesting! Ages change in different countries and even states with time. I would think 13 is too young.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@marguicha very very youong
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@marguicha (223802)
• Chile
11 Mar 17
@TheHorse True. 5 year old children know more than we do about that
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Mar 17
@Kehsiba They would work as beta-testers for video games and social media.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
11 Mar 17
That's interesting to know but that is too young. They should enjoy their teenage life first before taking marriage seriously
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
12 Mar 17
@amadeo Yeah how long has it been going?
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
12 Mar 17
@averygirl72 Not sure how long.But it has been on the books for years.As I was told
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@averygirl72 wonder how long this been on the books there?
@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
11 Mar 17
Here in NC both the man and woman have to be 18 to marry on their own, or 16 with the parents consent. It is astounding to me that NH allows 13 year old girls and 14 year old boys to marry with parental permission. An article I read indicated the bill was voted down because it would not allow 17-year-olds to marry even with parental permission, even though they can enlist in the military with parental permission at that age.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@TheHorse If I understood the article correctly, for a 13-year-old to marry, she not only had to have parental permission, but court approval. The NH bill was voted down because it would not allow anyone under 18 to get married period, and some lawmakers felt that wasn't fair to 17-year-olds who enlisted with parental permission and wanted to get married so their girlfriend or boyfriend and possibly child could access military benefits.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Mar 17
Check this. 17-year-olds WITH parental permission? Than how can 13-year-olds do it?
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Mar 17
@DWDavis Ah, got it.
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@LadyDuck (472078)
• Switzerland
11 Mar 17
In most European countries the legal age is 16 but you need the parental consent, from 18 you do not need the parental consent anymore.
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@LadyDuck (472078)
• Switzerland
11 Mar 17
@amadeo Spain until last year allowed 14 years old to marry, but from this year they changed to 16. Here in Switzerland for very young couple they also consider the difference in age. If there is a very wide gap, they can refuse to marry the couple.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@LadyDuck yes,this I know that.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Mar 17
This makes sense. But I think in the modern era, it's best to wait a bit while couples get educated, etc.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
11 Mar 17
Without parental consent 18; WITH parental consent 14 in the state of Texas. That's BS in my book @amadeo . 13 is unconscionable!!! Parents who give consent to any child under 18 should be horse-whipped. To me that is rape.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Mar 17
Even if the boy is 14? To me it's just silly.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
12 Mar 17
@TheHorse It makes no sense. Kids at that age don't know jack sh**t.
• United States
11 Mar 17
From the Utah state courts website: You must be at least 15 years old to be married in Utah. If you are over 18, you do not need consent to get married. If you are 16 or 17, you need signed consent from a parent or guardian, which must be given in person to the county clerk before a marriage license will be issued. Me thinks it's still waaaaay too young to be married, id rather my kids grow up a bit, get established in thier careers, then get married to whomever they want. Course, utah is king on screwy laws, so I dunno
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@librarygeek I wonder if this has something to do with a girl get pregnant.
It’s not often middle-schoolers get married in New Hampshire. But it’s still perfectly legal, after the Republican-led House killed a bill Thursday to raise the marriage age to 18.The rejection leaves intact a state law that lets girls get married as...
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• United States
11 Mar 17
@amadeo that would be my guess
@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Mar 17
If I marry three 15-year-olds, and add up their ages, then it would be age-appropriate for me.
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@Tina30219 (82066)
• Onaway, Michigan
10 Mar 17
Not sure what legal age is here I think it is 18. Wow crazy getting married at 13 that is to young they know nothing about being a wife at that age.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@Tina30219 that is for sure.Not sure why at the age.
@crossbones27 (49721)
• Mojave, California
10 Mar 17
Wow, that is crazy and I guess all states have crazy laws. To each is own I guess. Not sure if the kids are old enough to make a big decision.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@crossbones27 no they are not.Not sure for the reason for all of this.
• Midland, Michigan
11 Mar 17
No idea, but I'm sure that the have to have parental release if under eighteen. I also would think it doesn't happen often.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@MarshaMusselman yes the need permission from the mum and dad.I have not heard of any.unless I miss it
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• Midland, Michigan
11 Mar 17
@amadeo There are many old laws on the books of each city around the USA, but many aren't catered to or worried about any more. Maybe someone found that particular one and decided it needed changing even though most parent's wouldn't give their permission to anyone that young. That could be why it was voted down. Why change a law that no one uses to get their way. It's not like the thirteen year old would know where to look at the city offices to see what might work in their favor.
@DianneN (247184)
• United States
10 Mar 17
18 in Connecticut, but under certain circumstances, they need parental consent.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Mar 17
@DianneN yes this I agreed.
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
11 Mar 17
13 is way too young. It's disturbing to allow a child to marry.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@tzwrites very disturbing.
@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
12 Mar 17
In some cultures it appears to be OK. But perhaps that is changing.
• India
11 Mar 17
In India minimum age for girls is 18 and for boys it's 21 to get married legally
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 Mar 17
@optimisticbeauty that is a good age there.Why is the boys have to be 21 not 18?
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• India
11 Mar 17
@amadeo just a traditional society thinking that it will be good for relation but today's generation doesn't see it a big matter
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