I just need to get this out of my system...

@slayer08 (2377)
Philippines
March 11, 2017 6:44am CST
Ever encountered someone whom you've helped for a really long time but is neither thankful nor on their way to a better life and still clings to you as if you're their savior? Sometimes, I wish I could say enough. especially if they're family...
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
11 Mar 17
I had a friend who would ask something from me as if she was a sister.i am generous until I learned she was abusing my friendship so I let go of her.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
11 Mar 17
It's really sad when things such as that happen. Why are there people who are that way, right? They only think about themselves.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
12 Mar 17
@slayer08 i can be the most friendly and generous friend one could have but when i am abused, i am like the volcano who erupts and say good bye at once, after spelling out my anger.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
13 Mar 17
@ridingbet some people are like that, I think I'm not one of those types. Most of the time, I just stay away from a friend until the freindship fades.
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@marguicha (223809)
• Chile
11 Mar 17
If it is hurting you, remember that you have to think about you first.
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@marguicha (223809)
• Chile
11 Mar 17
@slayer08 It is difficult, but not impossible.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
11 Mar 17
@marguicha I have to keep that in mind.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
11 Mar 17
Been trying to. I should try harder, right? I hope to get there one of these days..
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
11 Mar 17
it's hard not to help family, unless you're far, far away and can pretend to be deaf, dumb and blind.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
11 Mar 17
I know.. I tried to remove myself from that scenario but it came back and bit me in my behind and I have to go back and still be that person I try not to be.. It is difficult. The bond, the hold it has on you; it's terrible.
• Paramaribo, Suriname
11 Mar 17
I had a nephew who stayed in my uncle's House for some years. And my uncle didn't even asked for money to stay there. After a while my uncle asked him if he could go and stay at a friends for a week because a few of my uncle's family would come and visit so they would stay there. He told my uncle he can't find so in such a short time so my uncle said ok. Hell find a place for them. Then a few weeks later a discussion came up about my uncle coming back to live fulltime again in his house with his family so he told my nephew to find a place. He would even help with that. So being that *** of a person my nephew tried to have something bad happen to my uncle and it didn't work. My uncle began to wonder and soon found out what was going on. He asked my nephew if it was tru and he didn't even deny it. He even told my uncle it was his house and he doesn't have the right to put him out the door. So the police handled him. Never heard from him sinds
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
11 Mar 17
You know it's sad that family can hurt us the most. Sometimes we try so much to be good to them but we end up getting hurt or we look bad to other people, when they don't know sh**. Sometimes I wish I could just leave and forget everything but I can't and I won't. I know I can deal with it but for how long.