HOW DO YOU KN0W IT'S TRUE LOVE (I NEED ANSWERS)
@Alex_Dzeko (20)
March 12, 2017 4:51pm CST
What Would you do?
Victor and Elena have been seeing each other for three months now, Elena say's she is 'hopelessly in love.'
Victor dotes on her constantly, even telling her how to dress, and who she can or can't talk to. He treated her like a queen, until last week. Victor slapped her after she was 'caught' talking to another boy.
victor says: "Elena should know I'm terrified of losing her". The thought of one of these boy's stealing my girlfriend drives me crazy! I feel bad about slapping her. But that's how much i can't bear to see her look at someone else. Besides, i apologized!'
elena says: My parents and friends say's he is controlling, but he just has high standards. And when he slapped me- which i didn't tell my parents about- well, i was talking and laughing with another guy. And he gets jealous, which i sometimes find flattering. Anyways, he said he's sorry, and he promised he'd never do it again.
YOUR TURN: Do you see warning signs in the relationship? If so, what are they? What should Elena do?
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@TheInvisibleMan (17597)
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12 Mar 17
This is a question that no one can answer instead of yourself.
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@TheInvisibleMan (17597)
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12 Mar 17
@Alex_Dzeko I read it and my answer is still valid. You just have to interpret. 
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
24 Jun 17
OK, Let's think about this. First, there is no excuse for a man to hit a woman. That is not love. Unconditional Love always does what is best for the other. Isn't being jealous, controlling and manipulating a Selfish act? How can a selfish act be the best for the other?
True Love is a Spiritual Connection. If your true love leaves, they can never leave for long. If you see your true love with someone else, never worry, trust them. If they can leave you forever, they are not your true love and you are better off being free when your real true love does show up.
It's a Big Mistake to think Love can be controlled. Trying to do so will return very painful lessons you choose to learn for yourself.
Life is about learning and growing as people. Our true love often is a Big Part of this. That is one of the reasons opposites attract. They will teach and pull each other toward the middle and growth.
Yes, there are many issues involved. Much to work through. Each must discover true love for themselves. Personally, I have never hit a woman and I could never have hit my true love. There are mental issues Victor needs to address. Further, the excuse of I caused someone to hit will never ever be a valid excuse. See things for what they really are.
We can't live our lives in fear of losing. We must bravely make a stand and do what is right. Like I said. Unconditional Love always does what is Best for the other. Is it really best to sweep it under the carpet like nothing happened? It doesn't matter what everyone else does. It's what you choose to do that counts.
Since we are all Living our Lessons, the answers will be discovered in time.
