How The Horse became a gambling addict and lost everything

@TheHorse (218931)
Walnut Creek, California
March 24, 2017 11:17pm CST
I was going to entitle this post, "Why I Hate Smiling Asians," but I figured everyone would think I was a racist pig and not read to post. I hate smiling Asians because I often see them on ads for local Casinos. Gambling addiction is big in the local Asian community, and I say a bad word every time I see smiling Asians on billboards advertising local casinos, as I did this morning in Oakland on my way to work in Berkeley. I see the same thing on TV here. How did I lose everything? Sports betting has became a "thing," On my way home from work, there was a five minute "spot" on my local sports radio radio station about how I could call in to this 800 number and get a "sure winner" for free for tonight's Warriors-Kings game. I was already ticked off about gambling, and exploitation of gambling addicts, so I wrote the number down on my hand as I was driving. I wanted to see what was really on the other end of that number. What I got was a real person, which surprised me. The ad said it was supposed to be a recording. I asked for the spread on the Warrior game, and what my "you can't lose" tip was. The guy on other other end had a distinct New York accent, and was actually perfectly nice. He told me that for $99, he could get my account "set up." He gave me the "over-under" (214) but never did give me "their pick." What scared me a bit was that he knew my last name from my phone number. I politely demurred, but said sure, his colleague (the one I'd heard on the radio today) could call me back and set me up tomorrow or Monday. Just for fun, I bet my entire fortune on the Warriors and Kings beating the over-under. I am now broke, and am moving my guitars and speakers to the local homeless shelter. At least I still have my jobs and my Scotch. Have you ever known anyone addicted to gambling (I have)? Do you notice the ads in your area designed to entice people into gambling? Do they tick you off? Are Asians and sports fans especially targeted? Note: All but one paragraph of my post is almost entirely true.
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@JudyEv (340256)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Mar 17
Gambling is bad news. I can totally understand how someone can get hooked. Glad you're not really homeless.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
29 Mar 17
@JudyEv That is EXACTLY what I was thinking, Judy, when I read the comment he wrote for you! I can translate most of what he said, but would have to take more English for Dummies classes before I could translate the rest of what he said!
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
You know what's funny? The "spread" was 18 points, they said on the radio. I never did get info on what "the boys" thought as to whether the Warriors would "beat the spread." But as I was driving, I said, the Warriors will dominate the third quarter, and take a commanding lead. Then they'll rest their starters and only win by 15 or so. That's exactly what happened. And as for the over-under (which I don't generally think about), the combined score turned out to be 214, which was exactly the over-under point. I guess that bet would have been a "push."
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@JudyEv (340256)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Mar 17
@TheHorse I'd like to say something intelligent but most of your comment is gobbledegook to me.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
25 Mar 17
pony, I swear, if this is not the paragraph that is fake, I will personally drive out to your house and quietly and quite meekly offer my help in moving you where ever you want to move. Please don't misunderstand me, I would be so angry with/at you that I could chew iron and spit nails, but that isn't what you'd need right now. You'd need a helping hand, a calm and collected friend and a place to go. I live too far from your jobs to let you stay here.... so this better be the right paragraph I've selected! "Just for fun, I bet my entire fortune on the Warriors and Kings beating the over-under. I am now broke, and am moving my guitars and speakers to the local homeless shelter. At least I still have my jobs and my Scotch."
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
25 Mar 17
@TheHorse Good! I was sitting on pins and needles waiting for you to tell me I had it right or not, pony! (No, not literally! I was positive I was right! This was another way to tease at you. Although, if I had been wrong, I really would have headed out to help you. Just so you know. )
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
@DaddyEvil But you already know I'm a Mark Twain fan and prone to a bit of exaggeration here and there.
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
Heh heh. I'm sitting here at my desk, sipping my first cup of coffee. But thanks!
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Mar 17
My Uncle just won $20k on a scratch off ticket and then I got into a "discussion" with him today as he said money doesn't seem to fix anything and he is probably going to end up wasting it by gambling and giving all back. to which I replied I will kick his A$$. He needs a car. but instead of trying to find one. he is trying to rent one- and I am like why waste your money renting... well I need a car to go look. - well, kinda, you could ask for help? but instead he asked me to help him rent one because he doesn't have a major credit card and that is what they require.... I throw up my hands in defeat.
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
30 Mar 17
@TheHorse it's in a bank account.. probably not earning interest. I'm just worried about how much money he's probably already blown in a week after the comment he made to me. He may be my uncle. but he is one year younger than me and we were raised together so he feels more like my brother... BUT.. he is a grown man.. I can't babysit everyone. I feel like I already have to do that with my roommates. I swear I don't know what this world is coming to. People take responsibilities less and less seriously each generation!
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Mar 17
@minx267 That may be true!
@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Mar 17
Well, renting a car is better than gambling. Can he put the rest in a bank account that earns a little interest?
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
27 Mar 17
I don't think I see much of that around here, the billboards I mean. I don't mind it, gambling that is, but I do see many have problems with it. My addictions are more of the caffeine and chocolate varieties
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• Centralia, Missouri
29 Mar 17
@TheHorse don't we all? I think caffeine is prob the #1 addiction of choice -she says while drinking her water with the fruity caffeine powder in it-
@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Mar 17
Oh, I have my addictions. I'm sipping coffee right now.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
25 Mar 17
No gamblers in my family. No interest either. We have two Native American run casinos in CT. On the highway, you can see busloads of Asians from the New York area, driven to the casinos night and day.
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
It's interesting how certain addictions are more prevalent in certain sub-cultures. I wonder if most of those who bet on sports are middle-aged white males. I have no clue.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
25 Mar 17
@TheHorse No clue either.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
25 Mar 17
@TheHorse I'm sure that you are generalizing a bit. All people can be into gambling, etc. Even white trash.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
29 Mar 17
I know a lady who gambles but she says she always wins. I have my doubts about that.
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Mar 17
Classic denial. Nobody "always wins."
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
25 Mar 17
We don't have gamblers in my family but i know some people who became filthy rich by playing ''Lotto''. And today they live in a nice villa in a posh area. I guess it all depends on luck
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
26 Mar 17
@TheHorse i agree. Money earned through your efforts provides great satisfaction. You can be proud of your hardwork
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
I wouldn't want to get rich playing Lotto. I'm proud that I've EARNED (most of) what I have.
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Mar 17
@Nawsheen Exactly. I have $200 in my wallet right now that I have not yet deposited in the bank. $120 was from some speakers I refinished, and $80 was from music gigs. I EARNED that money.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
25 Mar 17
I like to play slots in casino, but I am not addicted to it. The moment I start playing, I will start to count the number of spins. If there is no small win in 3 spins, I will take out the money and try on other machines. If there are small wins, I will count till 12 spins, and if there is no free spin bonus, I will switch machines too.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
26 Mar 17
@TheHorse I never will go into the casinos in my country. The government imposes a levy of $100 per entry, and that $100 allows just 24 hours in a casino. When I take cruise or go on holiday, I will visit casinos if possible. I probably spend just a few minutes if I do not get free spins or whatever. The most I lost on a cruise of a week long is $100.
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
How much money are you willing to lose on any given evening when you visit?
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Mar 17
@scheng1 That's more than I would like to lose gambling! If I lose $10 on the poker machines in Reno, I remind myself that I got three free drinks.
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@crossbones27 (49491)
• Mojave, California
25 Mar 17
Love this, I recently learned Asians are not as smart as everyone thinks, unless you count scams. Then they are the best. Sure technology wise, some of the smartest people in the world, but after that drops off like the rest of our countries, then they just smart business people who fake sell crap. They do it better because they keep their ego in check for the most part. Love Asians as friends but damn will I ever go into business with one. lol Way political and all about the money. They just keep it on the down low and so smart they can ruin lives.
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
Well, in this case, Asians are the victims. I'm not sure who runs the Casinos. But they target Asians here in the Bay Area. Smiling Asians on billboards everywhere. Cache Creek Casino. Et al. As for the sports guys, they didn't sound Asian. And my old softball buddy who was addicted to bidding on sports (and lost everything) was a white dude. In general, I don't like people who take advantage of others' addictions. It's not a noble way to make money.
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• Mojave, California
25 Mar 17
@TheHorse Indeed, but just pointing out everyone does it and the common Asian is like the common man. Makes sense to me. The difference is always where you go and the perception. I know north Cali has all the smart geniuses but socal has the fame and the prettiness. My point I met them both where I am at or once did and have been did dirty with good intentions and what America taught me, how to capitalize in shady ways. Once I knew the business aspect was not what I was looking for or needed , I tried to be human about it and the Asian wife hated me because I was making her man weak because he saw what I saw.
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
@crossbones27 Where were you originally from?
@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
25 Mar 17
Those billboards make it seem like it is exciting and fun. I have only been inside a casino once. For 15 minutes. Not for the usual reasons. It took my daughter and I 15 minutes to walk from the parking lot, through the casino to get to the exit. It took us an hour to find a way back into the parking lot without needing to walk through the casino a second time. There's a story here. Hmm next post?
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
@Morleyhunt I'm such a bleeding heart. I wanted to take her out to dinner, no...um...BJ required...but I got scared and just wished her the best.
@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
25 Mar 17
@TheHorse I actually did not look around a lot. There is no smoking in the casinos in Ontario. The people I did see seemed very focused on what the were doing. Not very observant of what was happening around them.....yes I feel a discussion forming, but need to do a lot more commenting first.
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
25 Mar 17
@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
25 Mar 17
I have a friend that is addicted to gambling, and he isn't smart about it, either. Loses all the time.
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
How does he sustain his habit? Once hooked, you really can "lose everything."
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@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
25 Mar 17
@TheHorse - He doesn't like sports, so he doesn't bet them. He just goes to one of the mountain casinos or bets on dogs and horses. We watched him lose $900 on horses one night, including $250 he'd won on the first race.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Mar 17
I have known someone who likes to gambling. Lol
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Mar 17
@JustBhem Is real money involved?
@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Mar 17
Tell us more!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Mar 17
@TheHorse He likes to play tong-its, a gambling card all day.
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@diosabella (4789)
30 Mar 17
Don't be like that! I'm always smiling when I comment on your post. Like that. My grandfather used to gamble. But he set a limit on how far he would go and that was the important trait that he didn't passed on to my uncle. My Uncle just gamble away and no control.
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
2 Apr 17
That's sad. Did he ever get help?
28 Mar 17
If you are a gambler, it is better not to go to a casino, you can lose everything. Moreover, it has already been proved that it is impossible to win at the casino even in the Martingale system.
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Mar 17
If you're a good gambler, I suppose it's best to gamble with friends. But then you're taking you're friends' money. I'm not into gambling.
@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Mar 17
@aktivnyj100 In what sense? One can also just have fun and play for paperclips.
28 Mar 17
@TheHorse Sometimes friends can also substitute.
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
19 May 18
I think that there are many gambling adverts on the website that I will often go on to. I know someone that did matched betting when he was a student. That didn't seem too bad because he voted for one thing on website a and against on website b. The problem was the gambling companies didn't like him because he seemed to get money off them. He would get around £30 a time. I thought it looked quite difficult to do.
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 May 18
The house always takes something, so, in theory, his plan should not work.
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@vandana7 (100300)
• India
25 Mar 17
Tell me about it. My father's sister, her husband, her second son, her son in law, her grand son....it kinda runs in the family. My father's brother also gambles, and his sons also. To an extent, I am a gambler, in the sense, I am fine with taking some risks.
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@vandana7 (100300)
• India
25 Mar 17
@TheHorse .. You don't invest in stock market?
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@TheHorse (218931)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
I'm not much of a risk-taker when it comes to money. I'll play the nickle poker machines when I pass through Reno. That's about it.
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@ourlot (982)
30 Nov 17
Is that for real? I hope you did not go broke, although I'm afraid some perfectly normal people would indeed do that. Seriously, if the story is 50% true: Are you getting treatment?